re: Eating Issues.... ??

Wow, I thought we were allowed to vent about whatever the hell we pleased in these forums and if you don't want to read it then don't fucking click on it.

Another fucking drama mama. Get over yourself! I haven't been on here for a long time but I noticed that the women on here are very "clique-ish" and think it's cool to talk shit to other women for no reason. They swear they run BG, lol. Don't even feed into it Alisa, she's not worth the typing.

Quoting Trenton's Mommy!:“ thats how the cookie crumbles stop whining about EVERYTHING just to get attention. wahh i throw up wahhh ... [snip!] ... or was taht something you could use to cry about too? no one fuckin cares shit. stop whining it could be a whole lot worse.”

Whoaa a lil harsh dont ya think. And yeah call me a hypocrite but I would never post something this harsh and NEVER would I post something bout someone elses relationship. Alisa's too nice of a girl. I mean just htink bout it we are pregnant we all complain and we have every right too. Yeah it could be a whole lot worse for herbut think bout it, it basically is she has a sickness thats super painful and not enjoybale at all. I mean I had to jump up on this for a minute I think it was kinda mean. Shes really nice Gods blessed her too with a bundle of joy and a wonderful BD. Be happy for her like everyone else. I know she is for you along with everyone else.

Quoting Trenton's Mommy!:“ thats how the cookie crumbles stop whining about EVERYTHING just to get attention. wahh i throw up wahhh ... [snip!] ... or was taht something you could use to cry about too? no one fuckin cares shit. stop whining it could be a whole lot worse.”

WHOA MAMA. I happen to talk to both of you and seriously Alisa is pretty freaking chill. She's sat on the phone with me crying about all my BD bullshit that I put myself through on a daily basis. You might not like her but it's not cool to blow it up like that. We all do a lot of bitching, some more than others, but that's partially what this site is for.

I understand your point of view and I think from what we talked earlier that you've had a pretty shitty day but that's no reason to try to hurt somebody else.

Please let's keep the peace  

Quoting Excited_Mommy_Alisa:“ Wow.... Ill pray for you hunny. You are just too mean of a person! You dont know me or my life or conditions... ... [snip!] ... dont want to hear my "whinning" Dont read it... you really dont have to... I have not bothered you... So just move on hunny...”

im not too mean i think that me telling the truth and not talkin shit behind your back and being two faced is alot more nice. trust me.
given you have alot of stuff going on and that sucks dont get me wrong.
but you make it seem like its the end of the world.
what about the ladies on bed rest or the ladies tht have had their babies already and its wayyy to early you have it made compared to some. i jsut dont see why you need to be soo whiney.
but hey im sorry i cant be two faced to you like everyone else but its cool.

Quoting GabriellaMarie:“ Whoaa a lil harsh dont ya think. And yeah call me a hypocrite but I would never post something this harsh ... [snip!] ... with a bundle of joy and a wonderful BD. Be happy for her like everyone else. I know she is for you along with everyone else.”

ok. well i dont see how you have any room to say anything you bitch about her alot so how are you going to be defending her when you just talk shit about her?

Quoting Trenton's Mommy!:“ ok. well i dont see how you have any room to say anything you bitch about her alot so how are you going to be defending her when you just talk shit about her? ”

Im not tryna start drama or any of that with you cause yourjust as nice. but did i not say call me a hypocrite? in my last post??
i just came to reliazation that it was and is wrong what ive said and what youve said. is that wrong? lol

Quoting GabriellaMarie:“ Im not tryna start drama or any of that with you cause yourjust as nice. but did i not say call me a ... [snip!] ... in my last post?? i just came to reliazation that it was and is wrong what ive said and what youve said. is that wrong? lol”

Not to be a bitch or anything but I think the point was more that nothing should have been said in the first place. I mean it's wonderful now that you understand that but perhaps next time before you go saying mean things about a person on a public forum you should think about the effects on them. What if you were in Alisa's place? I mean jeez she's one of the nicest girls I've talked to on here and yet she's one of the most attacked...I don't understand it.

I'm not saying anything bad about you, it's not my place, I don't know what went on, all I'm saying is from here on out I think we should try to be a little more considerate of eachother...all of us, myself included.

 

Quoting fierce:“ Not to be a bitch or anything but I think the point was more that nothing should have been said in the ... [snip!] ... is from here on out I think we should try to be a little more considerate of eachother...all of us, myself included.  ”

I agree. Alisa is definitely one of the nicest chicks on here. And I dont know why she's targeted like that. I wasnt aware so many people talk shit about her in public forums? What the hell is that about?! Do people really have nothing else to do? Way to be great role models for your kids, or kids to be.  

Quoting fierce:“ Not to be a bitch or anything but I think the point was more that nothing should have been said in the ... [snip!] ... is from here on out I think we should try to be a little more considerate of eachother...all of us, myself included.  ”

ive never made a forum saying anything mean about her. In the begining like wayy when i first started on here i didnt know alisa which still didnt give me a reason to say anything but like i posted stuff on the forum Khrystyn posted about her to see waht girls would say back to me since i heard "they'll eat you alive on here"
Ive apologized Ive never had a conflict with her shes an awsome girl!
Along with Khrystyn too

Quoting GabriellaMarie:“ ive never made a forum saying anything mean about her. In the begining like wayy when i first started ... [snip!] ... "they'll eat you alive on here" Ive apologized Ive never had a conflict with her shes an awsome girl! Along with Khrystyn too”

I know! That's why I wish there was just peace, they're both cool and I like talking to both of them.  

Quoting fierce:“ I know! That's why I wish there was just peace, they're both cool and I like talking to both of them.  ”

Same and now since i said what she said was mean shes annoyed of me now.
mainly cause she would say all of that to me and I would laugh and agree..I just never admitted that it was wrong for her to say it and that i didnt like it. ive always been slow when it comes to doing whats right when you know whats right. idk if that made sense lol

Quoting GabriellaMarie:“ Same and now since i said what she said was mean shes annoyed of me now. mainly cause she would say ... [snip!] ... i didnt like it. ive always been slow when it comes to doing whats right when you know whats right. idk if that made sense lol”

im annoyed with you now? who said taht? i havnt even talked to you all day but ok wow. how are you going to talk shit about soeone then totally ust lie thru your teeth cuz you wnat everyone to like you.

I think all of us preggs are entitled to bitch and vent when we are going through rough things... I am on bed rest.. so i do know how bad that sucks. I am VERY grateful for every day that she is still in my belly safe and sound but i have had scares just like you that she wanted to come early and i had to be hospitalized. I am loving my pregnancy absolutely, but if a day comes that i wanna cry and say AAAHHH WHY ME??? i should be able to... We ALL do.

I count my blessings every single day.... Im SOOO LUCKY... i have a beautiful apartment, where some dont have homes, im getting ready to purchase my first home!   I have the love of my life, who has been with me 4 years, and ya we had our rough patch, but after 3 years i think we were entittled to a slip before the 4th anni came about. We cant be perfect. I have gone through the MOST with this pregnancy... and i know not everyone can understand when your on the computer and not sitting next to me while im throwin up like crazy. But its hard to go through what i have and still stay as positive as i have. So for someone who could complain a WHOOOOLE lot more... im doing ok...

I like to converse, and give woman opportunity to Relate ... jump in and say.. YA.. ME TOO... SHIT! ... We ALLL go through a lot of similar shit, and somedays we will all want to stop and say WTF!!! I hate this part and that part and ya da ya da. We are all very much entitled to that.

On a daily basis woman complain about there weight gain and loss... There stretchmarks... the back pain... over eating... moodiness.... EVERYTHING... i am not alone in venting ... You yourself do it... If sooooooooo many others can bitch and complain about the vanity issues... why cant i complain when im in the hospital? Or cant work my ENTIRE pregnancy because of my illness? Or when the love of my life hurts me terribly and i cant stop crying? I am just as entitled as the girls complaining bout there tummy not showing enough... So let me... I let them... we are here to support eachother... Through our rought times...
I have made baby gaga a home for me for support because i have been on disability... i HATE not being able to go to work, and see my friends... the people who REALLY care about me... but im stuck... And making the best of my situation, by befriending and socializing with woman who are in my same boat... Thats what this site is about.
I Thank all of the girls who are supportive... whether its two faced or not... common courtesy is an admireable quality looked for in most walks of life. If you can bite your tongue and still be polite to others... MORE POWER TO YOU!!! Thats GOOD.. I may disagree with people at times, but i will not attack them. Does that make me two faced? No.... I am just respectful enough to say.. this is not my place.. And walk away.
If you have nothing CONSTRUCTIVE to say... dont say it at all. What comes around goes around. I firmly believe that. Which is why all i can continue to say, is GOD BLESS... i hope life brings many many wonderful things to you... I HOPE that time can teach its own lessons and people can grow to be better. I hope NO ONE goes through HALF of what i have... i would not wish it upon my worst enemy. GOD BLESS... All of you stay in my prayers..
I am grateful to get to share this journey to motherhood with those who take part in it with me! Its an honor to get a chance to be a part of your pregnancy journeys as well as to have you a part of mine... be in on the phone, a letter, or a text. The support is long lasting and appreciated greatly!

GOD BLESS ALL YOU LADIES!!!!! Hopefully only happy endings for all of us!  

Quoting Excited_Mommy_Alisa:“ I think all of us preggs are entitled to bitch and vent when we are going through rough things... I am ... [snip!] ... support is long lasting and appreciated greatly! GOD BLESS ALL YOU LADIES!!!!! Hopefully only happy endings for all of us!  ”

AMEN Sista! For only knowing you through here and knowing what you have been through your entire pregnancy, you are entitled to bitch/complain/vent about anything you want and whenever you want. I think I remember that chick saying "well what about the ones on bed rest?" Umm, does she know anything about your pregnancy and how long you have been on bed rest for, and how you're in and out of the hospital hooked up to IV's due to dehydration because you can't stop puking and having seizures. Wow is all I have to say. Anyway, Alisa you are a strong, smart and beautiful woman and I love you!

These are taken off a site... I added the link at the bottom if you care to follow up on it.  

Over 50,000 American women are hospitalized annually due to hyperemesis gravidarum. Some terminate wanted pregnancies because of the debilitation of the disease, lack of information and the lack of social and medical support.

Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of "morning sickness" which is characterized by one or all of the following: unrelenting nausea and/or vomiting, dehydration and/or malnutrition, rapid weight loss, and the inability to keep food and/or liquids down (or even eat at all).
Due to the rarity of this condition, most people have not heard of it. When you combine that with the fact that most women have dealt with some sort of morning sickness at one point or another, that adds up to a bad combination - and the result is that HG sufferers almost never get taken seriously, by friends/family/coworkers/general acquaintances or by doctors and caregivers. By outsiders, HG is seen as the subject of an amusing joke. "She's really making a fuss over such a common thing. She needs to get over it." etc. etc. etc. This book is incredibly validating in that it gives me something to give to people and say, "Here. Read this!" For myself as well, it was a very healing process to learn that there are other people out there who have been through this nightmare.


For those who dont know much about HG... Its not a joke, or something easy to deal with. http://www.beyondmorningsickness.com/