I think I'm convinced enough... Abortion is the right decisi

I think I've realized I have no business having achild whether it's through adoption or not. I wanted adoption for selfish stupid reasons I knew that but it has been hard to pass that up. Also I hate that my mom's always right but it seems it's true on a way... She's right if I can't do so much to take vare of myself idk how I could take care of it. Even if that's 6 months likely all that it's been through it's probably no good anyway... Anyway I guess I'm just accepting that as hard as that is really emotionally hurts that I can't even manage to do what every woman does but it's the truth I'm not interested in the interests of this baby I really just care about myself and that's wrong...

I hope you decide on what is best for you. Good luck.

I wish you the best, hun. <3

I know that you have been struggling with this for awhile... you keep going back and forth with your options... are sure this is what you want? Or is it because you are feeling pressured?

DO NOT let anybody influence your decision. It must be YOURS all the way. Good luck to you, stay string.

DO NOT let anybody influence your decision. It must be YOURS all the way. Good luck to you, stay string.

Whatever decision you think is best for you your mom should support you. I'm sorry you're going through this. But it's your body & your choice. However, I want to say one thing. If you go through with adoption and you don't want to be apart of the child's life that is fine. There is also open adoption and you'll be involved still. I'm not sure what make you decide adoption is selfish, but I'm sure you have your reasons.

But you need to make the decision you think is best for you. Don't let anybody pressure you into a choice you're not comfortable with.
Good luck!

Make the decision that is best for you. I don't know your story, but I do wish you the best of luck with whatever you decide.

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I wish you well in whatever you decide to do. <3
Stay strong.

I decided n abortion I'm not going to go back and forth anymore... I really realize I can't use this pregnant just to get away from my mom... I have to find other avenues a lpng term plan at least...

Quoting sadlife11:" I think I've realized I have no business having achild whether it's through adoption or not. I wanted ... [snip!] ... does but it's the truth I'm not interested in the interests of this baby I really just care about myself and that's wrong..."

You're not selfish. You know you're not ready to care for another human being. In my opinion, that's being selfless. It would be selfish of you to keep it when you know you're not ready. Best of luck.

thanks guys for your support. I really appreciate it...

I don't feel it is selfish of you to make this decision. I think it would be selfish to have the baby and not be able to take care of it and neglect that baby. It's all about what is right for you. I commend you for being able to face what you're facing and coming to a very hard decision. I just hope you make the decision for yourself and not for others, because ultimately this is your life, not theirs.

and no I'm not being pressured this is just something my mom made me realize really... I feel adoption would be selfish as it's only to get housing and away from my mom... Not for the adoption really... I guess it's a matter of what is better and what I want to do and I have to do what's right really...

Quoting sadlife11:" I think I've realized I have no business having achild whether it's through adoption or not. I wanted ... [snip!] ... does but it's the truth I'm not interested in the interests of this baby I really just care about myself and that's wrong..."

I am assuming that your mother is planting these ludicrous thoughts in your head. I havent gotten one selfish vibe from any of your post.....how is it logical to say its selfish to birth a baby and allow a good family to love and raise them? I agree w/everyone else....you shouldnt let anyone's opinion sway your personnal decision. Not to be rude but it just seems like your mother doesnt want the stigma that sometimes comes from a grandchild being given up for adoption (everyone will know that she was unwilling to support u and her grandchild in your time of need) This is YOUR decision and she should be supporting you no matter what you decide!