re: I think I'm convinced enough... Abortion is the right decisi

Quoting sadlife11:" and no I'm not being pressured this is just something my mom made me realize really... I feel adoption ... [snip!] ... the adoption really... I guess it's a matter of what is better and what I want to do and I have to do what's right really..."

Getting away from your mom seems like it would be a good thing....those agencies can provide job training and help you get stable on your own. There is nothing wrong w/bettering yourself so you dont find yourself in the same type if situation later in life while allowing soimeone else the joy of raising a child. Why is your mother trying to keep u there w/her anyway? She seems very controlling and manipulative. Please find yourself some good therapy to deal w/all this no matter what u decide because i dont see your mother being there to comfort you.

<blockquote><b>Quoting sadlife11:</b>" and no I'm not being pressured this is just something my mom made me realize really... I feel adoption ... [snip!] ... the adoption really... I guess it's a matter of what is better and what I want to do and I have to do what's right really..."</blockquote>




I just noticed you're also from Henderson, if you're interested I could give you the information for the abortion clinic I went to. The staff was wonderful and extremely supportive.

I'm ok with it I promise... I don't mind really about getting an abortion I know it's the best thing for everyone involved I plan to do it the right way...


that's a relief... I just hope tuesday comes faster that's all...

Quoting sadlife11:" I'm ok with it I promise... I don't mind really about getting an abortion I know it's the best thing ... [snip!] ... for everyone involved I plan to do it the right way... that's a relief... I just hope tuesday comes faster that's all..."

as against terminating as u were 2days ago, and as confused as u were yesterday......please dont decide so quickly. This is a decision you have to live w/4ever. There is no rewind or do over. I have known countless girls who were in similar situations that allowed themselves to be coersed into aborting (when they personnally werent sure thats what they wanted) and now they are dealing w/aweful guilt and depression. Please make sure you are certain.........

Quoting 5 blessings so far....:" I am assuming that your mother is planting these ludicrous thoughts in your head. I havent gotten one ... [snip!] ... u and her grandchild in your time of need) This is YOUR decision and she should be supporting you no matter what you decide!"

Hate to say it but you also don't know her in real life. Don't presume to know someone based off of posts on the internet. Just saying. And don't speak for her mother. Perhaps her mother is a bitch and wouldn't care either way what she chooses, but don't act like you know she would be accepting. You're not her mother.

Quoting 5 blessings so far....:" as against terminating as u were 2days ago, and as confused as u were yesterday......please dont decide ... [snip!] ... sure thats what they wanted) and now they are dealing w/aweful guilt and depression. Please make sure you are certain........."

Remember that you are in AS..... and that she has already choose to have the abortion. Stop preaching about adoption.

Quoting ♥ Bea ♥:" Remember that you are in AS..... and that she has already choose to have the abortion. Stop preaching about adoption."

i am not trying to be offensive....i am only responding to the combination of all of her recent threads. I can only give advice and draw conclusions from the information given by OP and if u read her previous threads u will see why i am responding in the way i am......I only care about her emotional state of health

<blockquote><b>Quoting 5 blessings so far....:</b>" i am not trying to be offensive....i am only responding to the combination of all of her recent threads. ... [snip!] ... u read her previous threads u will see why i am responding in the way i am......I only care about her emotional state of health"</blockquote>



She sounds pretty sure in her decision...

Double post

Quoting ♥ Bea ♥:" Hate to say it but you also don't know her in real life. Don't presume to know someone based off of ... [snip!] ... bitch and wouldn't care either way what she chooses, but don't act like you know she would be accepting. You're not her mother."

i never insinuated that her mom would be accepting...OP stated in a previous post that her mom made her an appt for an abortion that she didnt want to go too.....

I did it no need to argue it's over... My mom wins... That's the past I guess. Kind of upset but ohwell...

Quoting sadlife11:" I did it no need to argue it's over... My mom wins... That's the past I guess. Kind of upset but ohwell..."

sorry u r dealing w/this.....please find yourself some counseling.