a lot of people go through these feelings when they join (myself included), but if you hang around awhile, you'll realize that you gotta just let the things that bother you slide off your back. Sometimes women are bored and create drama (which is where this is most likely going) for fun and only hang around for the fun of it. Often times, women are pregnant and hormonal and just not in a good mood. Other times they care passionately about the subject at hand and just wanna knock some sense into someone.
Don't take it personally. Move on quickly and you'll find this isn't such a bad place after all. In the meantime, I suggest you quickly unsub from this thread as they are gonna tear you apart just for posting this.