Quoting BigMomma5:" <blockquote><b>Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:</b>" Run it by them, but i think you ... [snip!] ... Whats a flair.... I'm sorry I'm 38 years old and preggo and stressed out (and it ain't even my wedding lmfao)"
lol flair is like... him wearing something a little out of the box (most 14 year old would be too self conscious to wear a bow-tie) So if he's a confident enough kid to wanna rock a bow tie i think everyone should be cool with it. Maybe just have him wear different colors, like if the men in the bridal party are wear black and white- have him wear grey with a bright bow tie. Let him pick the colors.