re: Should my daughters go to their sister's funeral?

Quoting Kid Blacky™:" This is still going??-__- OP how are your daughters coping?"

my oldest daughter is having nightmares. Last night she couldn't sleep so I was up all night with her until she went to bed at around 2 this morning and I couldn't sleep so I wrote a letter. My youngest daughters don't really understand so they slept like babies.

Quoting Dana Ashley:" my oldest daughter is having nightmares. Last night she couldn't sleep so I was up all night with her ... [snip!] ... this morning and I couldn't sleep so I wrote a letter. My youngest daughters don't really understand so they slept like babies."

Damn....it makes me really sad to hear that.

Quoting Kid Blacky™:" Damn....it makes me really sad to hear that."

Me too. Her dad is supposed to be coming over later today so hopefully that can make her feel better.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dana Ashley:</b>" I'm typing it out. I'll e-mail it to you when I'm done."</blockquote>




Wow, well that was well said. I don't know what to say, I understand more where you were coming from so hopefully she'll be able to as well. My name is the same as her dead daughters...

I don't think I'd change anything about that, hopefully she takes it the way it's supposed to be taken.

Maybe invite her over sometime in the near future so she can see that the way you interact with her husband is strictly parental.

Quoting Golf Wang:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dana Ashley:</b>" I'm typing it out. I'll e-mail it to you when ... [snip!] ... invite her over sometime in the near future so she can see that the way you interact with her husband is strictly parental."

Thank you. I'm afraid to ever give it to her though. She probably won't read it anyway if I do decide to give it to her.

Has the funeral happened yet? Were they able to go?

Quoting Brittany♥'sJordan:" Has the funeral happened yet? Were they able to go?"

Yes they had the funeral. No my girls weren't able to go but their aunts came over and took them out for awhile on Monday.

Quoting Golf Wang:" This thread makes me kinda sick, I mean I was keeping it together and all but OP what did you think would ... [snip!] ... dresses weren't being tailored I'd smurf you up in a serious way. What does she have to lose? She's lost everything already."

I could not agree with you more. I mean why the hell would some one choose to have a second then a third child with some one who is married to some one else. Why would you choose to put more kids through having to live a life with out a whole family. Its not like you can say that you accidently got pregnant 3 times by a married man, come on did you think if you kept popping out his babies that he would finally leave his wife for you. It is so selfish to keep bringing kids into that kind of situation. Knowing he is married and then having the nerve to say his wife needs to except them. That is unreasonable thing to ask of some one. It is not the childrens fault by any means but knowing he is with her having his kids YOU are putting your kids in a situation where they are going to have to grow up in a home where their daddy is married to some one else that will ultimately hate them. Its one thing when a woman marrys a man who already has children, that woman HAS to accept the children, but to get married then have her husband get you knocked up three separate times, i dont think so. I dont think its possible for her to accept your children ever. not under those circumstances. personally if i was her i would have kicked that loser to the curb after finding out he knocked you up once but thats just me. any way this woman lost her daughter. You can help your daughter get closure by taking her to the grave site. Its truly unfortunate that you put your daughter in a situation where she is going to have people in her life that hate her. stop having kids with married men.

Wow... I think I need to catch up on this thread.....

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