Quoting Golf Wang:" This thread makes me kinda sick, I mean I was keeping it together and all but OP what did you think would ... [snip!] ... dresses weren't being tailored I'd smurf you up in a serious way. What does she have to lose? She's lost everything already."
I could not agree with you more. I mean why the hell would some one choose to have a second then a third child with some one who is married to some one else. Why would you choose to put more kids through having to live a life with out a whole family. Its not like you can say that you accidently got pregnant 3 times by a married man, come on did you think if you kept popping out his babies that he would finally leave his wife for you. It is so selfish to keep bringing kids into that kind of situation. Knowing he is married and then having the nerve to say his wife needs to except them. That is unreasonable thing to ask of some one. It is not the childrens fault by any means but knowing he is with her having his kids YOU are putting your kids in a situation where they are going to have to grow up in a home where their daddy is married to some one else that will ultimately hate them. Its one thing when a woman marrys a man who already has children, that woman HAS to accept the children, but to get married then have her husband get you knocked up three separate times, i dont think so. I dont think its possible for her to accept your children ever. not under those circumstances. personally if i was her i would have kicked that loser to the curb after finding out he knocked you up once but thats just me. any way this woman lost her daughter. You can help your daughter get closure by taking her to the grave site. Its truly unfortunate that you put your daughter in a situation where she is going to have people in her life that hate her. stop having kids with married men.