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Gone. Looking elsewhere for support.

This is your 3rd child?

Yes it is.

Quoting Loka Lokita:" I don't need negativity & I will not get an abortion. Although this is the hardest decision I have ... [snip!] ... my words sound horrible, trust me. Imagine feeling them. It's so hard and scary. I hate this baby, and I don't know what to do."

Being pregnant can be scary, especially if it was an unplanned pregnancy. I think your mind will change as you continue in your pregnancy. The first time you feel your baby move, the first time an ultrasound pic looks like a "real" baby, the first time you hold your son or daughter in your arms...you will fall in love with your baby! Talk to your dr about the feelings you are having...its possible to be suffereing from depression related to the pregnancy and they can help you! but you have to ask! Good luck and God bless

Aye. Well, I'd be looking for a nice adoptive family, eh?

Sorry you are going through this. have you tried talking to your OB about it? Maybe seeing a therapist. I have regretted this pregnancy, but never to that extent.

Quoting Loka Lokita:" Yes it is."

Was there any reason when you got pregnant that it wasn't a good thing? Ex. rape? Or the dad left?

Honestly, if you're feeling like this, have an abortion.

Quoting Lil Dude's Mamma:" Honestly, if you're feeling like this, have an abortion."

I think she she said she couldn't handle one.

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sorry you are going through this...i was a little down getting pregnant so fast after my first, but i was never that upset about it. I just thought "damn i wish i had waited a little while longer" but after a couple days to let it sink in i was excited. (i found out i was pregnant when my first was 4 months old) They were supposed to be 13 months apart but lo#2 was born 32 weeker and they are 11 months old. I hope things get better for you! Maybe you should talk to your dr. about it.

Quoting Sweet lullaby:" Was there any reason when you got pregnant that it wasn't a good thing? Ex. rape? Or the dad left?"

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So give it up. You obviously are leaning toward that.

maybe give it some time, as the other ladies said. maybe even look into some adoptive families. if you continue to feel the way you feel i would opt for adoption, because no baby should be brought into the world when your feeling that way about it. ...good luck

Quoting Loka Lokita:" Both of those things."

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Well this is understandable, then. I'm sorry! I'd talk to a therapist and consider adoption, even so.