re: bf kid drives me crazy!!

Quoting marissa55:" ive bern around five year olds and they dont act that way. he cant even count or dress himself bc he ... [snip!] ... for it. he smurf in the floor to get attention. bf knows how i feel obviously since he is gone the whole time his kid is here"

Um any child will do outrageous stuff for attention if they have no guiding compass in their lives. You cant control whats going on at his mom's house, but since you take care of him- you have an oppurtunity to help him change. Im sure by the language you use when you refer to him you just OOOOZE happy vibes around the little guy. I'd smurf on your floor too.

Quoting marissa55:" ive bern around five year olds and they dont act that way. he cant even count or dress himself bc he ... [snip!] ... for it. he smurf in the floor to get attention. bf knows how i feel obviously since he is gone the whole time his kid is here"

omg are you serious???

You need to do something because guess what that child might have special needs...

You need to leave if you feel like that...

Quoting marissa55:" ive bern around five year olds and they dont act that way. he cant even count or dress himself bc he ... [snip!] ... for it. he smurf in the floor to get attention. bf knows how i feel obviously since he is gone the whole time his kid is here"

Well it obviously sounds like your boyfriend's a smurffy father (take note, this will not change when your spawn arrives), the baby momma's a smurffy mother, and you're a smurffy caretaker. Poor kid. Also sounds like you're just being used as a babysitter for now. Nothing will change when your child arrives. I feel bad for both of the poor kids involved. You all sound like grade a smurftards.

You just called a 5 year old a smurf. Oh you're a real winner, aren't you. I think you need to leave. Obviously you have no idea how a child is supposed to be, so you have abnormally high expectations of this child. Maybe the kid behaves around you more because he's scared of you, since you say he acts up around everyone else.

And you hate the kid? You don't have the patience for him? Maybe you should sign over custody of that baby when it comes, because you are in for a rude awakening when it comes to child rearing.

I hope your bf takes the baby and leaves your smurfy ass. And I rarely say that smurf either.

Quoting marissa55:" ive bern around five year olds and they dont act that way. he cant even count or dress himself bc he ... [snip!] ... for it. he smurf in the floor to get attention. bf knows how i feel obviously since he is gone the whole time his kid is here"

If he really knew how you truly feel, saying you hate his kid, he'd surely have the smarts to get up and leave your ass!
You knew he had a kid when you got with him so you should've understood what you signed up for. That kid's probably traumatized by the way you're acting/treating him and that's why he's acting that way....

<blockquote><b>Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:</b>" "anyways im 6 months pregnant and ill be damned before our kid tries acting like that" bahaha this ... [snip!] ... a piece of paper, stick it in a really thick heavy book, and bang yourself over the head with it. becuase your a total bitch. "</blockquote>


Seriously lol   wtf is she gonna do when her baby is up all night? Post on here, idk why this brat won't sleep I smurfing fed him 6 hours ago ugh babies are too much work! What a smurftard! Lol I feel bad for this kid and the soon to be new baby.

Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:" not to mention he probably picks up on the fact that she hates him... and gets super clingy when daddy gets home. Way to perpetuate the problem, OP"

She's clueless.

Quoting Freckles Ford:" Children who poop/pee themselves at that age usually have a problem, whether mental, physical... or ... [snip!] ... by you. The situation is terribly unhealthy for that child and for you. I strongly suggest leaving before things get worse."

  my cousin (whos a douche) had custody of his children for a time after his divorce. His ex wife was very mentally ill and cut herself infront of her 3 babies. They moved in with us and his middle son would smear poo all over the bathroom. He just couldnt cope. The kids are back with their mother now becuase my cousin basically gave up his kids for his new girlfriend. But apparently his exwife is stable and actually had a tumour removed from her brain which made things even worse on top of being bi-polar. She even adopted my cousins teenage daughter becuase she hates my cousin. But yeah kids acting out like that means they feel our of control and lost in our big ugly adult world.

i have tokd him i hate his kid....i mean hes even said himself that he regrets not putting him up for adoption. i dont see why everyones getting so butt hurt like youve never hated someone regardless of his age. you dont even know me or take of him. you only think im mean bc society says so. most people thinthe same but dont say it

Hopefully you can find someone to take care of your kid for you cause you are going to have to put up with so much more smurf you don't even know. But don't worry I'm sure your kid will develop super fast and will be able to cook, clean, dress, and completely take care of itself by a year old so you don't have to do jack smurf.

Quoting marissa55:" ive bern around five year olds and they dont act that way. he cant even count or dress himself bc he ... [snip!] ... for it. he smurf in the floor to get attention. bf knows how i feel obviously since he is gone the whole time his kid is here"

Then smurfing leave or tell your boyfriend what the problem is, don't take it out on the kid. Every child develops differently. OR you could get a JOB so you wouldn't have to sit at home with him all day and he can go to daycare to learn how to do the smurf that you complain about, I mean I'm sure you're such a great teacher.. he must just be stupid.  

Quoting marissa55:" i have tokd him i hate his kid....i mean hes even said himself that he regrets not putting him up for ... [snip!] ... age. you dont even know me or take of him. you only think im mean bc society says so. most people thinthe same but dont say it"

Okay, so clearly no one loves this kid. That makes me want to cry.

Give him up for adoption, it's not too late. I'm sure someone would love to have him and could give him the attention and love he deserves.

Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:" "anyways im 6 months pregnant and ill be damned before our kid tries acting like that" bahaha this ... [snip!] ... a piece of paper, stick it in a really thick heavy book, and bang yourself over the head with it. becuase your a total bitch. "

  

Quoting Jenifer Casto:" <blockquote><b>Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:</b>" "anyways im 6 months pregnant and ... [snip!] ... fed him 6 hours ago ugh babies are too much work! What a smurftard! Lol I feel bad for this kid and the soon to be new baby."

me too.

Quoting marissa55:" i have tokd him i hate his kid....i mean hes even said himself that he regrets not putting him up for ... [snip!] ... age. you dont even know me or take of him. you only think im mean bc society says so. most people thinthe same but dont say it"

You say you hate him for the stupidest smurfing reasons, hes 5 years old hes a child, and to say you hate him is heartless, and hes obviously a smurffy smurfing dad to let your ass stick around.