I hate men!! Hubby on strike!!

So my husband is on strike now according to him because of lack of sex!! I dont understand why he cant get the fact that i am 6 months pregnant chasing around our 2 year old all day and everything else that i have to do..having contractions regularly which are really getting on my nerves and just dont want to "do" him!! He has slept on the couch for 3 days saying he is on strike from being a husband and if this goes on for another year, because he doesnt even seem to think it is because i am pg, he is gonna have to sleep with someone!! That makes me wanna jump him, huh? It isn't like it has been months, about a week and a half, but he expects me to pleasure him even when i want nothing to do with sex, hand job, etc!! I can't believe him, he doesn't barely talk to me right now b/c he is pouting..I know i have to do it, but i am always sick and tired and it just doesn't get done. What is wrong with men??

men suck.......

Its like Visa Versa with me and my boyfriend, I'm super horny all the time and he's always tired or sick or not in the mood. I definently acceot it alot better than your hunny though. The whole strike thing would really piss me off. I'm sorry Mama guys are idiots!

Sorry, but I have to side with him. Lol. It's been MONTHS, for me, due to deployment and I'm totally dying here! If hubby were home, there's no way there would be a week without sex. I'm still pouting about the fact that we're staying with family when he gets here... I was seriously looking forward to a motel room with a big bed and plenty of privacy for us... UGH!

My husband is similar. Sex just isn't appealing to me right now, and he wants it ALL THE TIME. He hasn't resorted to what your hubby is doing though. Try talking to him telling him what's going on, why it's difficult for you to pleasure him.

Ok...I havent had sex with my husband since we concived this baby. I'm 8 weeks pg. You do the math. LoL. He is miserable and cannot understand how crappy I feel. And the rare occasion I'm actually in the mood, he ends up having too many beers and comes to bed and passes out. He also doesnt understand that when I say my boob hurt so bad I have to put hot and cold packs on them and even the water hitting them in the shower makes me want to scream, he still tries to grab them. AUGH!

I feel ya honey. Good luck <3

Quoting Mommy2Malykai:“ Sorry, but I have to side with him. Lol. It's been MONTHS, for me, due to deployment and I'm totally ... [snip!] ... family when he gets here... I was seriously looking forward to a motel room with a big bed and plenty of privacy for us... UGH!”

I'm with you! My hubby is on deployment too! We have our own house but around the same time he gets home our daughter will be arriving and a bunch of our family is coming out for the baby's birth or right after! But God knows that wont stop us! My husband won't care if his mother was in the next room or not after 6 months! LOL...........

But I don't think he should be saying that he would go and cheat on you!
That would set me off the wall!
Does he help with the kids and house work?

Quoting Mommy2Malykai:“ Sorry, but I have to side with him. Lol. It's been MONTHS, for me, due to deployment and I'm totally ... [snip!] ... family when he gets here... I was seriously looking forward to a motel room with a big bed and plenty of privacy for us... UGH!”

It has only been a week and a half or so not months and i think he is being an ass...I have a lot of complications and sex just sucks it hurts and has no pleasure for me..I know that soon i will just have to grit and bear it to make him happy but honestly i dont want to!!

Quoting Mommy's little Miracle:“ I'm with you! My hubby is on deployment too! We have our own house but around the same time he gets ... [snip!] ... should be saying that he would go and cheat on you! That would set me off the wall! Does he help with the kids and house work?”

no he works all day as a technician and is beat when he gets home..our daughter goes to bed about an hour after he gets home..they have dinner together and play for a little bit and then she goes to bed..I do all the rest and still work long weekend shifts in healthcare. I am at the dr every week b/c i am high risk with my medical conditions. I am super mommy!!!

Quoting SAMANTHASARAH:“ It has only been a week and a half or so not months and i think he is being an ass...I have a lot of ... [snip!] ... has no pleasure for me..I know that soon i will just have to grit and bear it to make him happy but honestly i dont want to!!”

well, my hubby is deployed and even though i'm not going crazy without sex i can understand where your hubby is coming from (more so if he was being deprived for long then 2 weeks!). I think the strike think is a little immature though, but men need their needs met as much as us women do. This might sound really bad but don't wait a month to have sex with him because he just might find it somewhere else...by that time i think i would too! sometimes we have to do things we don't want to and i have sex with my hubby whenever he wants it but unfortunately he doesn't do the same for me  

Quoting Mommy's little Miracle:“ I'm with you! My hubby is on deployment too! We have our own house but around the same time he gets ... [snip!] ... should be saying that he would go and cheat on you! That would set me off the wall! Does he help with the kids and house work?”

Yeah, we don't have that option, really... we'll be staying with my grandparents... if it were just parents, I wouldn't care so much but... grandparents... I've gotta have some class... besides, I'm normally... not quiet, lol... and after months apart, it's really hard to restrain myself. LOL.
At least with him gone, it's not constantly on my mind but, OMG, if he were here, I'd be going nuts after 3 days! lol.

Quoting USMCBabyOnTheWay:“ well, my hubby is deployed and even though i'm not going crazy without sex i can understand where your ... [snip!] ... do things we don't want to and i have sex with my hubby whenever he wants it but unfortunately he doesn't do the same for me  ”

Yeah, the strike thing is a bit premature... If it had been a month or so, then hell yeah, I'd be on strike too but, a week and a half... he could have a tiny bit of patience before going to such extreme's! But, I have to agree... there have definitely been times when I haven't wanted to put out but, have done it anyway, to please him... hell, I'd expect the same from him if I needed it that bad... luckily, my hubby is a nympho so I don't have that problem, lol. Being in the "adult" industry really helps to create a nympho hubby. lol.

Quoting Mommy2Malykai:“ Yeah, the strike thing is a bit premature... If it had been a month or so, then hell yeah, I'd be on ... [snip!] ... hubby is a nympho so I don't have that problem, lol. Being in the "adult" industry really helps to create a nympho hubby. lol.”

'adult' industry, eh? i'm confused...he's military...so you? lol yeah i've gone 2 weeks without give andy any and it was when i frist got prego but i would NEVER let it go for more then 2 weeks (morning sickness didn't help)...he's pretty good with waiting since he's got the sex drive of a 65 year old man, but when he's home i mostly get some everyday...he's learnt his lesson on keeping my happy!

Quoting Mommy2Malykai:“ Yeah, the strike thing is a bit premature... If it had been a month or so, then hell yeah, I'd be on ... [snip!] ... hubby is a nympho so I don't have that problem, lol. Being in the "adult" industry really helps to create a nympho hubby. lol.”

ahh!!! adult novelty distributor!!! got ya! i'm sure that job can get the blood flowin'!

Quoting Mommy2Malykai:“ Yeah, we don't have that option, really... we'll be staying with my grandparents... if it were just ... [snip!] ... LOL. At least with him gone, it's not constantly on my mind but, OMG, if he were here, I'd be going nuts after 3 days! lol.”

Yeah, I have no idea how I am going to last for 6 wks w/o any after I have the baby! Like you said if he wasn't going to be here it wouldn't be as hard but.......
Adult novelty......... sounds like a fun job! lol.........