I dont understand some parents!!

this ladie i know has been a stay at home mom for 9 years and recently got a job, I can honestly say she was a great mom before the job. But now she acts like a flippin whore. Has cheated on her husband 4+ times in the last 2 months that she has admitted, is always bouncing her 3 daughters from friends houses to grandparents (sometimes its people they hardly know) ages 9, 5 and 2 years to go out and drink/ meet guys at hotels. She's even has sent naked pictures of her self to 3 of the guys. (She didnt delete the messages and husband seen them, he did sent them to everyone bc no one believe this was what she was doing) which was wrong of him.. She literally never has her kids anymore and never is home with them.. She's gave up everything for alil bit of freedom, she cant afford to raise her kids without the dad, she doesn't have a car nor licenses.. The husband recently beat the hell out of her for cheating supposedly in front of the kids from what she is telling everyone, i just cant see him doing this.. Its all a shocker really.


How can any parent act like this? It makes me sick, id like to slap her, I ignore her anymore because i can't stand the way she is acting.. I'd love to say something to her about it and tell her the reason why i don't talk to her but it's not my place.. I do know tho i'd never ever ever do this crap to my kids!! I hope these girls dont grow up messed up emotionally by this.

Sounds like someone can't handle their freedom.....

Quoting 2012 Marie:" this ladie i know has been a stay at home mom for 9 years and recently got a job, I can honestly say ... [snip!] ... I do know tho i'd never ever ever do this crap to my kids!! I hope these girls dont grow up messed up emotionally by this."

It takes all kinds of people to make the world go round.
I know a parent or two that just REALLY shouldn't be a parent...but. meh. I shrug it off.

I learn from it and carry on.

Quoting KRG29:" Sounds like someone can't handle their freedom..... "

 

It sounds like she's trying to fit 9 years of being home into a couple months of insanity.
I can relate. Well, not nearly to that extent. But I was a stay at home mom or 3 years and then started working again and like twice a week I'd go out with my co-workers after work for a couple hours and it was really nice being out and away and actually doing something aside from changing diapers lol.
BUT I wasn't a whore.

Some people don't look at kids the way some others do .some mothers and fathers just straight out have no regards towards their kids no consideration she gonna pay for the things she doing one day she gonna look up and her family gonna be gone and its gonna be all her fault.

Why is it not your place to tell her she's acting ridiculous? Is she not your friend? In any case, sounds like she's enjoying all the attention she's getting

i forgot the best part - She's 34 years old and the first guy she had a fling with was only 18 years old, just graduated high school.. she's gonna lose her kids, house everything over this childish behavior

Quoting 2012 Marie:" i forgot the best part - She's 34 years old and the first guy she had a fling with was only 18 years ... [snip!] ... was only 18 years old, just graduated high school.. she's gonna lose her kids, house everything over this childish behavior"

maybe she's on drugs lol its not funny but this kind of behavior i never believed to be normal.

the kids are with her dad as of now, which to me is best for them until she puts her head on right again. she's the type that if you say anything she bashes you on facebook etc so i don't know what i could say that wouldn't offend her