Quoting Caydence's mommy 4/4/09:" We have a lot of alcoholics in our family and at the end of the day if you continue to put up with the ... [snip!] ... its the truth. You need to sit him down and have a serious talk with him about his drinking and let him know it has to stop."
In Alanon, you are shown how to deal with the alcoholic in your life a little differently. I'm learning to stop enabling but I also know that my ultimatums work against the process.
I dunno, thanks for letting me vent everyone. His drinking is the only real problem I face in my life, its a big one- but I also have a lot to be thankful for. I rarely post about his drinking, but i was tired cranky and he still wasnt home.. just felt frustrated.