This is a hypothetical situation. (I realized I have to add that to D&Ds or people believe I'm debating something personal.)

You have met the perfect guy. He is sweet, treats you great, if you have kids he is like a second father (or just a father) to them, he is reliable and blah blah blah. Whatever you were looking for in a man's personality, you found it in this man.

However, there are two "problems" that I want know if you would find them deal breakers.

1. He is less attractive than men you dated before. Maybe he is short, or he is missing a tooth, or he weighs more than the others... whatever, he is less attractive than men you normally date. Even though he is less attractive you are still sexually attracted to him, just not as much as you were with other men. Would you stay with him??

2. The sex is good. But you've had much better. This can be for any reason from his penis is fairly smaller than you like or he finishes to quickly or he is just a novice. Either way, you do enjoy the sex, but not as much as you've enjoyed it with other men. Would you stay with him?

State your reasons why and feel free to debate opinions!  

Those would not be deal breakers for me. If he was ugly and/or the sex sucked, those would be, heh.

C.

If I was used to sexier men, I got a great imagination to spruce that right up.
And as far as the sex goes, they make toys for that, so I could cope.

If I enjoyed the sex and was attracted to him despite not being as attractive as my ex it wouldn't be a deal breaker.

if you're attracted to him still it's okay. Also, if communication is present sex can get better!

I fail to see the debate.....nice guy but if hotness were more important whouldent you have stayed with the oether guy...ohhhhh....he was a jerk.....again, not a debate. Nice guy wins, and stop comparing that is just mean.  

Personality trumps looks in 99% of cases for me... so 1 is not a dealbreaker for me at all.
I have no real interest in sex, I'm like a plant, so I wouldn't care if he lasted five seconds.

Wow.... first time I saw a poll with a 100% outcome!  

Those things don't matter to me. Sometimes my SOs weight makes me twitch only because he doesn't take care of himself to be healthy.
Sex? Ohwell.

Quoting Rea:" I fail to see the debate.....nice guy but if hotness were more important whouldent you have stayed with ... [snip!] ... with the oether guy...ohhhhh....he was a jerk.....again, not a debate. Nice guy wins, and stop comparing that is just mean.   "

I have read many posts (not only on BG but here as well) where women would not even consider dating a man if he were shorter than her. And I've read many problems in marriages due to a woman not LOVING the sex even though it was "enjoyable".

Neither are deal breakers for me.

Quoting MommyRu:" I have read many posts (not only on BG but here as well) where women would not even consider dating ... [snip!] ... shorter than her. And I've read many problems in marriages due to a woman not LOVING the sex even though it was "enjoyable"."

I generally don't like to date guys shorter than me, since they tend to be prepubescent, heh.

C.

<blockquote><b>Quoting God:</b>" I generally don't like to date guys shorter than me, since they tend to be prepubescent, heh. C."</blockquote>




Lol, how short are you?

Quoting Kimberlea:" <blockquote><b>Quoting God:</b>" I generally don't like to date guys shorter than me, since they tend to be prepubescent, heh. C."</blockquote> Lol, how short are you?"

5'2

C.

Quoting MommyRu:" I have read many posts (not only on BG but here as well) where women would not even consider dating ... [snip!] ... shorter than her. And I've read many problems in marriages due to a woman not LOVING the sex even though it was "enjoyable"."

That's why I said in 99% of cases, personality trumps looks. But if he was like 4'5" and had an elephant trunk for a nose... I just couldn't make myself be attracted to him, despite his perfect personality.