Idk why but..

Every time I see something that makes me think of my BD it makes my stomach churn, like feel upset. Idk if it is because I feel so ugh about him or what. I have his sister who I am cool with on my FB and every time he comments on her status it makes me feel off, I guess it is because I don't understand how he goes on day to day like everything is ok when he has a child he doesn't even see or check up on. I don't understand how he thinks that is ok. I guess I never will and I am getting over it but seeing him say something along with his picture just brings everything I am getting over back up. I know I could block her posts or whatever but meh, isn't that big of a deal to me.

You'll never understand why people are such selfish idiots sometimes. Just block him. You won't see any of his posts and he won't see yours.

Quoting lil*Mama*Bear™:" You'll never understand why people are such selfish idiots sometimes. Just block him. You won't see any of his posts and he won't see yours."

Well he's not on my list or anything and yea he is a selfish idiot. :\

<blockquote><b>Quoting Melissa ღ:</b>" Well he's not on my list or anything and yea he is a selfish idiot. :\"</blockquote>




Yeah, but then you don't have to feel that way, I think it will help you move on. IMO.

My husband's ex makes my stomach churn, and so does mine. My husband's ex is all buddy buddy with his mother and brother and SIL and they're close and it makes me want to slap them all.

Quoting Melissa ღ:" Well he's not on my list or anything and yea he is a selfish idiot. :\"

You could still block him though so you can't see anything he says.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" My husband's ex makes my stomach churn, and so does mine. My husband's ex is all buddy buddy with his mother and brother and SIL and they're close and it makes me want to slap them all."</blockquote>




But she is the ex that's friends with the fam.

Quoting lil*Mama*Bear™:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Melissa ღ:</b>" Well he's not on my list or anything ... [snip!] ... idiot. :\"</blockquote> Yeah, but then you don't have to feel that way, I think it will help you move on. IMO."

Oh wow, now out of nowhere he hits me up saying his cellphone got disconnected and now he has a new number like really? It takes you 3 smurfing weeks to tell me that smurf? Wow. Oh now of course he is using work as an excuse because supposedly he put in 104 hours of work in 2 weeks.

Quoting lil*Mama*Bear™:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" My husband's ex makes my stomach ... [snip!] ... and they're close and it makes me want to slap them all."</blockquote> But she is the ex that's friends with the fam."

Doesn't mean there aren't similar sentiments over POS ex's

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" My husband's ex makes my stomach churn, and so does mine. My husband's ex is all buddy buddy with his mother and brother and SIL and they're close and it makes me want to slap them all."

Lol! Oh yea here comes the load of excuses from him. He had the nerve to ask "did you call or text my other phone that was disconnected?" I was like "Yea, once but you didn't answer so I figured you were on one of your breaks you like to take when you don't see your daughter for a period of time." smh, I am so smurfing over his smurf. He hasn't seen her in a month! He did that smurf before too. I really don't know what to do about it.

I know you probably feel like you need to try for your daughter. But just let him go, don't worry about her having a daddy. She's got a great mommy. It's not your job to make him play daddy.

Quoting lil*Mama*Bear™:" I know you probably feel like you need to try for your daughter. But just let him go, don't worry about her having a daddy. She's got a great mommy. It's not your job to make him play daddy."

I know, I will just feel smurfed up if I keep her from him. I told him if he cares one tiny bit about her he will stop coming in and out of her life. He needs to be there fully or not at all.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Melissa ღ:</b>" I know, I will just feel smurfed up if I keep her from him. I told him if he cares one tiny bit about her he will stop coming in and out of her life. He needs to be there fully or not at all."</blockquote>




I would at least not try to.contact him. Even if he says he's coming and doesn't show. he wants control.

sorry but all i can say is smurf him girl. you don't need him and yeah i'd block him like that other girl said cuz he's probably just doing it to push buttons and i'm sure he's pushed enough buttons already so idkw stupid smurfs like that feel the need to add extra stress to the stress they already cause.

OH and also my ex husband *SD* makes my stomach churn everytime i think about him as well. him and his zoo animal gf lol.