trying not to be mad

I'm trying not to be mad at BD. The kids and I are getting along great. I'm just stressed. I just want to yell at him WTF?!?! WHy can't you just man up. Why can't you just be there for them? What is so smurfing hard about that? I know he is gonna blame me for not giving him visitation this upcoming weekend and trying to say well it is father's day...but honestly who sends their kid home with the end of a smurfing joint on their foot? Really?? I mean what was so hard to understand about "If the kids come back all smurfed up or telling me something isn't right you aren't gonna get them anymore!" I mean really what is so hard about sending the kids home clean. They don't need to be dragged down into his drug problem.

Don't blame u one bit!! Kids safety always comes first!

Smoking weed isnt a "drug problem" are you okay? Kids with drugs ON them ya that's a problem

Yea my kids always come first. Like I've just been in shock. The police officer said the living conditions were horrible. Plus I had to take my babies to get drug tested. I mean who in their right mind sees calling a pediatrician asking them if they can drug test an almost 2 year old and a 3 year old? I mean really? He could at least call and apologize ya know?

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" Smoking weed isnt a "drug problem" are you okay? Kids with drugs ON them ya that's a problem"

No its not just that I just don't want to go into detail. I know for sure he is into bath salts and took my kids to spend the night with a chick that does bath salts. He is into a bunch of smurf.

<blockquote><b>Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:</b>" No its not just that I just don't want to go into detail. I know for sure he is into bath salts and took my kids to spend the night with a chick that does bath salts. He is into a bunch of smurf. "</blockquote>




Wow yeah that's smurfed up. Sorry you're dealing with this

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:</b>" No its not just that I just don't want to ... [snip!] ... does bath salts. He is into a bunch of smurf. "</blockquote> Wow yeah that's smurfed up. Sorry you're dealing with this"

Thanks. I just didn't have enough proof before to with hold visitation. I mean seriously I never in a million years thought I would be taking my babies to get drug tested.   I mean A had to be poked by a needle since we couldn't get a urine sample.  

Bathsalts are so scary, I would be contacting a lawyer and getting a restraining order on him as soon as I could.

Quoting Queen_B:" Bathsalts are so scary, I would be contacting a lawyer and getting a restraining order on him as soon as I could. "

Already have a lawyer and unless he physical threatens me I can't do smurf   We have our court date for July 19th. I just don't want that smurf around my kids. I mean idc if people smoke weed or what not that doesn't bother me, but I don't want it around my kids. I'm just glad I don't have to worry about their safety anymore.

<blockquote><b>Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:</b>" Thanks. I just didn't have enough proof before to with hold visitation. I mean seriously I never in ... [snip!] ... would be taking my babies to get drug tested.   I mean A had to be poked by a needle since we couldn't get a urine sample.   "</blockquote>



Drug metabolites are only dectable in the blood very briefly. I hope they all are clean :-(

  that sucks. sorry.

Quoting shes*almost*one!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:</b>" Thanks. I just didn't have enough proof before ... [snip!] ... sample.   "</blockquote> Drug metabolites are only dectable in the blood very briefly. I hope they all are clean :-("

yea   It just sucks that we even had to do this smurf   I still want to kill their dad.