20 years old and pregnet with my 2 child !

im freaking out i dont know what to do , im thinking of abortion but i feel bad hurting a poor inisint child , my son who is 2 years old now has aDD witch makes this harder on me and i can berly handle him hes a hand full and thinking of having another one is scary . need help !! advice

What about adoption?

You've been here since 2008 and this is your first post?

C.

then consider adoption?

If you don't think you can handle it or your not ready, there are options. You just have to make that choice by yourself and really think about it. I was honestly considering abortion with this one, I'm 22.

I didn't know they diagnosed ADD at age 2.
If abortion is best for your situation try not to feel bad. Weigh the pros and cons and make the decision that will make your life and your sons life better.
Good luck!

If you don't think you could handle another child right now, and you don't want to have an abortion then adoption is really your only other choice. What kind of support system do you have? Are you together with the fathers child?

And was your son diagnosed by a dr with ADD? That seems really young

" Attention deficit disorder has traditionally been viewed as a disorder of elementary school children. While there are hundreds of scientific studies generating a wealth of data for diagnosing and treating ADHD in school-age children, there are few equivalent studies about diagnosing and treating preschoolers with ADHD. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition (DSM-IV) criteria used to diagnose ADHD include symptoms such as, “out of seat during school,” “does not follow through on instructions,” “avoids tasks with sustained mental effort,” and “fidgety and restless while sitting”—describing behaviors that may be developmentally appropriate for some preschoolers."

If you have a diagnosis of ADD in a 2 year old I would be looking for a second opinion.

I honestly can not do adoption i feel bad giving my child away that i carryed for 9 months , and about abortion im tereffied since im not good with pain at all and i would choose the pill one not the surgery one. yes my son was dignosed by a doc about add hes super super happy all the time witch seems like hes drinking soda all day .

Not to be rude, but you would feel bad about giving your baby a life? But it's ok to take it from them?

Quoting Melissa Hartsell:" Not to be rude, but you would feel bad about giving your baby a life? But it's ok to take it from them?"

How do you "take it from them"? Do they have a power to see into the future that I'm not aware of?

C.

I'm asking how it is hard to give your child away, but not hard to terminate it?

Quoting GABRiELS M0MMy:" I honestly can not do adoption i feel bad giving my child away that i carryed for 9 months , and about ... [snip!] ... one. yes my son was dignosed by a doc about add hes super super happy all the time witch seems like hes drinking soda all day ."

You have three options
1. Abortion
2. Adoption
3. Parenting
Decide what will be better in the long run for your family. All three are hard choices and I wish you the best of luck.
Do you have someone you can talk this over with? Your SO, mom, sister, best friend, anyone? Maybe someone close to you can give some more helpful words.

Quoting Melissa Hartsell:" I'm asking how it is hard to give your child away, but not hard to terminate it?"

She didn't say that exactly. She doesn't want to do either, she's scared. It's always hard to terminate a pregnancy and/or give baby up for adoption.

Quoting Melissa Hartsell:" I'm asking how it is hard to give your child away, but not hard to terminate it?"

'Cause one is a living child, the other is a clump of cells.

C.