re: Babys father.

Quoting *Bree* Amyla's Mommy!:“ ha im sorry but i have to get this off my chest...(now that were all talking about this) *so when i met ... [snip!] ... has 2 babies but him and thats her car and she pregnant by him AGAIN. uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh that feels so good to let go lol”

omg i am so sorry that you had to deal with all that,

Quoting *Bree* Amyla's Mommy!:“ uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh that feels so good to let go lol”

Ha let it all out... I know i rarely tell anyone my situation because I feel its embarrassing. I was with a manipulative man on and off for 3.5 years, I had caught him cheating twice, the last time was in December, and I CAUGHT them. I ended it on the spot. About 3 weeks later, I started dating an ex from way back... I had told him that I was told I most likely wouldnt be fertile for much longer, if at all, according to the doctors... So he said he would be very happy if we had a baby together, so we didnt exactly try, but we didnt try to prevent it, and here it is, kicking me to death.As I said, I caught him still seeing his ex. He went back to her, and I actually went back to the manipulative ex of 3+ years. That lasted about a months worth of him putting me down everyday for being pregnant with another mans child. And now he's just being plain vicious...

Okay Im sorry this is so long, but I need to get this off my chest as well. My ex of 3 years, Garrett, had been dating this girl, but he kept telling me he wanted to be with me and be with this baby and all that shit, and we were still sleeping together, then he stopped and changed his number... For about a week and a half... And then he was back doing the same thing to me and saying he was ending it with his girlfriend. He never did, so I pushed and he said forget it, so I told his prissy little girlfriend everything. Now he's retaliating because Im guessing he lost her... And youll never believe what he's been telling EVERYONE... Garrett and ONE of my friends know that my stepdad used to sexually abuse me quite often... And Garrett is telling everyone that its my stepdads baby... I refuse to cry about this, but this is the biggest betrayal I have ever felt in my life...

Quoting aileys mommy:“ yea he wouldnt care if he did, i talked to lawyer about some things and he told me that if in 2 years ... [snip!] ... can have his right taken away, so i am hoping that in 2 years his rights will be taken because he dont want them but sign off,”

oh wow i wonder if that law is the same here. The idiot calls private anyways and when he doesnt leave a message i can say i dont know who it is..hmm..lol..Good luck though. I hope you get what you want.

Quoting Lilly89:“ I wish I could still suck in. lol Right now my stomach just looks chunky and I can't suck it in like I used to. =P”

Ha I can JUST barely suck my stomache in... And its not even that big!

Quoting *Bree* Amyla's Mommy!:“ true. they are out there! i havent been looking in the right places. and everyone i have ever dated ... [snip!] ... have ever dated has been older then me lol and yea im happy about that!! i let it all hang out jk i have too many strech marks!”

just dont look, they will find you, good guys are good for that, things do come back, the guy that i dated at 30 weeks happen to be a guy that i almost dated 2 years prior, and we stoped talking because of the sitition i was in, and when i left the father we started talking again and ended up dating, and he loves ailey

Quoting PregnantRebel!:“ Ha let it all out... I know i rarely tell anyone my situation because I feel its embarrassing. I was ... [snip!] ... that its my stepdads baby... I refuse to cry about this, but this is the biggest betrayal I have ever felt in my life...”

aww hunny i am sorry, but dont let the asshole get to you, you know whos the father of your child, and thats all that matters, it dont matter what everyones else thinks, what you think is all that matters

Quoting aileys mommy:“ omg i am so sorry that you had to deal with all that,”

its ok. i guess my judge of character wasn't that good with him. and i usually have a good judge. idk i was in a vulnerable time in my life. i just wanted someone i guess......i couldnt tell you to be honest(why i belived him)...

Quoting Sidney's ♥ Mommy:“ oh wow i wonder if that law is the same here. The idiot calls private anyways and when he doesnt leave ... [snip!] ... and when he doesnt leave a message i can say i dont know who it is..hmm..lol..Good luck though. I hope you get what you want.”

me too, the last time my ex called was christmas eve and i answered to be nice, he said nothign and hung up, get this i called him back 1 because i didnt know who it was and i wanted to know, and i got his voicemail, and thats how i found out that it was him

Quoting *Bree* Amyla's Mommy!:“ its ok. i guess my judge of character wasn't that good with him. and i usually have a good judge. idk ... [snip!] ... i was in a vulnerable time in my life. i just wanted someone i guess......i couldnt tell you to be honest(why i belived him)...”

and you probley never will be able to, i still honestly couldnt tell you why i was with my ex. i guess i was lonley, who knows

Quoting PregnantRebel!:“ Ha let it all out... I know i rarely tell anyone my situation because I feel its embarrassing. I was ... [snip!] ... that its my stepdads baby... I refuse to cry about this, but this is the biggest betrayal I have ever felt in my life...”

it is embarrassing. but i got my beautiful baby out of it that i love and shes not even here yet.

and you shouldn't even worry about them. hes just trying not to look dumb for trying to play both of you and losing both of you. plus you know who your baby daddy is so that's all that matters.......

alright ladies ailey has a doc appointment in the morning so i need sleep, i will catch up in the morning goodnight

Quoting aileys mommy:“ and you probley never will be able to, i still honestly couldnt tell you why i was with my ex. i guess i was lonley, who knows”

yea. but i feel everything happens for a reason. so its all in our plan. plus we got beautiful babys lol

Quoting aileys mommy:“ alright ladies ailey has a doc appointment in the morning so i need sleep, i will catch up in the morning goodnight”

goodnight.

Quoting aileys mommy:“ alright ladies ailey has a doc appointment in the morning so i need sleep, i will catch up in the morning goodnight”

Good Night and take care!

Quoting aileys mommy:“ aww hunny i am sorry, but dont let the asshole get to you, you know whos the father of your child, and ... [snip!] ... father of your child, and thats all that matters, it dont matter what everyones else thinks, what you think is all that matters”

I know, and even if I didnt know who the father was, I wouldnt care. I wanted this baby. MY baby. Its just the embarrassment of having everyone know my biggest secret ( I live in a very small town) and having to explain it. Ive told a few of my close friends how he's been attacking me and keeping the details of who very vague. And the only reason he's doing it is because he thinks Ill call and yell at him. Im done. I will never speak to him again, he could have cheated on me everyday and it still wouldnt have been half as bad as spreading that around.
...But it does help to hang on tight to a man who is completely on my side and will do anything to shut the asshole up...