re: Babys father.

Quoting Photographer83:“ Hooray for SINGLE MOMMIES!!”

HOOORAY!!!

Lol Ya deadbeat i'd say mines only seen my daughter once he's in to modeling with some broke down agency! Modeling where you don't get paid for it! Sorry hunny that's not modeling!

Quoting *Bree* Amyla's Mommy!:“ lmao that car part was funny! i feel the same way. my babys daddy is 27 and has like 6 kids and takes ... [snip!] ... of none of them. (i did not know this until after i was pregnant. then i found out alll the truth. he was a lying bastard.)”

same here but her dad is older then that, and has 2 kids that he dont care about, and i also didnt find out till after i got pg

Quoting SugAr MomMy:“ yeah my boyfriend gets mad because i'm always saying "my" baby. I really should stop because we are still ... [snip!] ... buthe just really needs to prove it more. hopefully what they say is true and he'll become a daddy when he meets his baby.”

Hopefully. i wish you luck.
personnally i think its fucked up that we become moms right when we find out were pregnant and they become dads "when the babys here"...dont make sense.....

Quoting *Bree* Amyla's Mommy!:“ yea. all my baby daddy cares about is weed. and no they dont care. AT ALL. and its very sad. i pray to god to have mercy on his soul!”

Well if they Ever grow up and stop to think. They will realize all that they missed and know that they cant take it back. And who knows we might be with nicer guys who treat us and our kids better. Then its the baby fathers loss not ours.

Quoting *Bree* Amyla's Mommy!:“ Hopefully. i wish you luck. personnally i think its fucked up that we become moms right when we find out were pregnant and they become dads "when the babys here"...dont make sense.....”

agreed

Quoting Photographer83:“ Hooray for SINGLE MOMMIES!!”

Hooray!  

Quoting Photographer83:“ Hooray for SINGLE MOMMIES!!”

Hooray!! :highfive: to all the single mommy's on Baby-gaga. Were strong woman!

Ha this is going to sound soooo cliche, but the father of my baby is currently in jail... For beating up his girlfriend... Winner. I tell you. And when I was 12 weeks along, on EASTER MORNING mind you, he called me and left me a message saying I had four days left to get an abortion, or he wanted to sign off all his rights... And this is a baby that HE wanted, and WILLINGLY participated in the creation of. It wasnt a suprise. He knew what he was doing, and we knew what would happen. He supposedly wanted this baby soooo badly, well come to find out, he was still seeing his ex the entire time, and when I found out, I kicked him to the curb and he went right back to her. What the fuck ever...

Im dating a new guy now though who is very sweet, has a 3 year old daughter of his own that he has custody of, and I like where its going so far...

sh*t my babys daddy is a lieing control freak who was telling me who i could and could not hang out with and what i could and could not eat.. so i fineally told him the baby was not his (even tho it is) because he had it in his mind that if we was not together then he was going to take the baby from me because he works and i dont (right now) he did not buy anything from the time i found out i was pregnant till the time i told him to leave me alone... (only after he threatened me and told me i could never get rid of him because i was carring HIS child)

Ugh - my baby's daddy WANTS to be part of the picture - except not for the baby...he just wants me. He fucked that shit up when he went batshit crazy in December and January. I kicked him out in early January and I haven't spoken to him since. He stalks me online (which is why you don't see the sex of the baby on here or the name or anything)...and he calls, texts and comes to my house too.

I feel sick thinking he's out there buying stuff for this baby thinking he's going to get joint physical custody or something. HELL NO. He's not fit to be a father...not to this child or his 11 year old son.

It's sad - but I almost wish he was a deadbeat instead of just psycho, so I wouldn't have to deal with the stress of him.

Quoting PregnantRebel!:“ Ha this is going to sound soooo cliche, but the father of my baby is currently in jail... For beating ... [snip!] ... now though who is very sweet, has a 3 year old daughter of his own that he has custody of, and I like where its going so far...”

thats good that you found a new guy, your ex sounds like a loser and he dont deserve the baby anyways

Quoting July in Georgia Mommy:“ Ugh - my baby's daddy WANTS to be part of the picture - except not for the baby...he just wants me. He ... [snip!] ... It's sad - but I almost wish he was a deadbeat instead of just psycho, so I wouldn't have to deal with the stress of him.”

i didnt put aileys dad on her birth cert, one because i wanted nothign to do with her dad, and 2 because he could care less anyways but its always an option

My thoughts exactly. As I said, I really dont want a paternity test. And I dont want child support. I dont want any unworthy man to have any part of my childs life. I dont care if I have to bust my ass to support my child everyday for the rest of its life, it will be worth saving my child from having a terrible father...

This might sound strange but alot of your baby's fathers act like mine. He hit me while pregnant, wanted me to get an abortion. Didnt want to sign over his rights, now does. Im going to court for soul custody but he missed this one time and the judge suspended an arrest warrent and so as usual he smells like a rose and we have to go back in may. This sucks. All i want is whats best for my son. My ex wants to "go back out" but wants me to wait until his probation is over while he is with this other chick. This kid has gone to court for drugs and driving without a license and never goes to jail. He will turn everything around like its my fault. I hate it. I get so stressed out that my chest hurts and ill get a headache. I hate it. Why do woman have to go thru all the stress and the men can run around with their dicks out and not feel like shit.