No more sex?!

Ok so I'll just get right down to it....my hubby and I aren't having it enough! He's frustrated and I have no and I do mean NO sex drive! Before we had our second little boy we were always "loving" on one another. I mean we couldn't get enough... I knew my hormones would be a little crazy afterwards and it may take a little while to get back in the hang of things, but come on.... He'll be six months tomorrow and I have no will to go hop in the bed! Something just isn't right. And don't get me wrong...my husband turns me on and boy does he do it all just right, but its just getting me in the mood that is driving both of us nuts! What can we do? I need suggestions!

Quoting nikki1283:“ Ok so I'll just get right down to it....my hubby and I aren't having it enough! He's frustrated and I ... [snip!] ... do it all just right, but its just getting me in the mood that is driving both of us nuts! What can we do? I need suggestions!”

Porn?

Try getting a sitter one night and buying a sex game. I've seen ones that you play in the tub, and it seems pretty fun.

Quoting *Arrogant Erica O'Hara*:“ Porn?”

hahahah lmao its the way to go  

I personally dont want anything to do with sex either, at all and my poor bf is starting to feel very neglected haha!!! But ppl just say thats b.c I'm preg, where you've already had your baby so its prob. not the same... I dunno.
I would try going to a sex store and find a game or something like that to get you both in the mood.

UGH i don't want to talk about it! i'm on sex restriction from my doc... and DJ and i are going CRAZY! (me more than him)... i please him as well as i can, but i'm not allowed to have sex of any kind, because orgasm can trigger contractions...

sorry i'm too bitter to help with your problem...

Porn and/or toys. I'm not having "sex" right now and both seem to work dandy for me.  

I am having a big big problem getting in the mood. Alot of people have said porn as well but my bf doesnt like it and says that women who have to go to sex stores or watch porn have a weak man that isnt doing something right. SOO its not like I can just say hey lets get some porn LOL. Just letting you know I feel your pain, well my man feels the same pain as your man I guess. lol

Yeah well as much as I hate to really put all of our business out there....I guess this is the place....porn hasn't helped, and we already have plenty of toys that aren't really getting us there either. It's like if I just get so tired of not having a sex drive I finally say..."Lets do it" we do and its great but then it's right back to where we started! Do libedo pills give you a sex drive or do they just make you go longer? Maybe those would work?

Quoting PrincessSara:“ I am having a big big problem getting in the mood. Alot of people have said porn as well but my bf doesnt ... [snip!] ... hey lets get some porn LOL. Just letting you know I feel your pain, well my man feels the same pain as your man I guess. lol”

Get porn/toys for yourself. Not your bf. lol   I'm just giving you shit. Actually I find incorporating porn/toys into the sex life quite fun and interesting...very un-weak. But that's just me.... 

Quoting nikki1283:“ Yeah well as much as I hate to really put all of our business out there....I guess this is the place....porn ... [snip!] ... back to where we started! Do libedo pills give you a sex drive or do they just make you go longer? Maybe those would work?”

It sounds like maybe you're just really tired....which happens!!   I have heard to try to make it like a "date night" (if you can get away from the house for a night, even better)...like make a whole night out of it...candles, bubble bath, wine, the whole schabang.

Quoting OhBaby!1974:“ Get porn/toys for yourself. Not your bf. lol   I'm just giving you shit. Actually I find incorporating porn/toys into the sex life quite fun and interesting...very un-weak. But that's just me.... ”

well i really have no desire, lol so I dont want the stuff. I want it for his sake to get me in the mood when need be. I too have tried toys in the past with relationships b/c i never really had a drive at all. Of course it didn't work. I think porn is fun sometimes but he wouldn't have it thats for sure. Men and their freaking egos I guess. lol

Yeah I don't really find it weak to add movies or toys....it actually adds more to the experience, of course thats if we could even get to the experience! 

Quoting OhBaby!1974:“ It sounds like maybe you're just really tired....which happens!!   I have heard to try to make it like ... [snip!] ... from the house for a night, even better)...like make a whole night out of it...candles, bubble bath, wine, the whole schabang.”

Maybe I am just tired, that is one of my biggest "excuses" usually we go to bed and I'll have every intention of gettin' "freaky" and I truely fall asleep on him....poor guy! Its a good thing he really loves me or I'd be worried about him getting it from someone else!

Quoting nikki1283:“ Yeah I don't really find it weak to add movies or toys....it actually adds more to the experience, of course thats if we could even get to the experience! ”

lol Thats what I'm thinking too but atleast you are open to new things in your relationship, cuz he aint and its killin me..... lol you are better off than i am i think. lol Good Luck to you