Father saying cruel words to daughter

If somebody hit my kid they wouldn't be around to cuss at them or hit them again.

If someone hit my kid I would end it right then and there. There is no excuse for that. Kids make mistakes .. nothing to hit them over.

how are you still with him? smurf that smurf.

Just my opinion but any man that is verbally or physically abusive should have no say in my child's life.


Especially if he knows he is wrong when confronted but still does it.

Quoting Nikki Crawford:" If somebody hit my kid they wouldn't be around to cuss at them or hit them again."

  Why are you stiill with him?!?

Quoting Nikki Crawford:" If somebody hit my kid they wouldn't be around to cuss at them or hit them again."

 

I don't think I could stay with someone let alone consider them adopting my child after actions like that. You really need to sit down and talk to him about what is and isn't appropriate. Lying is a normal stage of development for children, especially younger ones, and although they should be corrected he should be lashing out at her like that. Or hitting her for any reason. I don't know if you spank or not, but if you do that should be the only way any physical contact is made for punishment.

My father treated me this way, except the abuse was worse. Lets just say it caused alot of problems. I ended up pregnant at 14, I suffered from depression, I was suicidal, self esteem and self respect issues, and lots of other things. You need to stop this or leave him. No one would treat my child this way

I would have left him the minute he hit MY kid. Not ok. And it's not ok for you to let it continue.

you shouldnt let that smurf slide. you need to have a serious talk with his behavior with her

I don't know. We have a child together and I am scared to try to do it all on my own. I am scared that if I leave and don't have a father figure that her real father will try to take her and I won't be able to do anything about it because I haven't had a job in forever and can't support myself and my girls. He doesn't treat the child we have together the way he treats my daughter. I'm at a loss on what to do.

My step dad treated me that way. In my whole life, he has only appologized to me one time(my mom made him, he made it clear he did not mean it), he was cruel to me and a horrible father emotionally. Because of it, I have extreme depression, self esteem issues, and I resent my mother for it. I attempted suicide several times as a teenager, trying to get away from him. I don't see myself ever being able to forgive him, and I believe it will cause problems between me and my mom for a long time. Do NOT let him treat your child like that. Don't ever let anyone treat your child that way.

Quoting Mommy of 2 + 1 angel:" I don't know. We have a child together and I am scared to try to do it all on my own. I am scared that ... [snip!] ... myself and my girls. He doesn't treat the child we have together the way he treats my daughter. I'm at a loss on what to do."

So you are telling me you would rather stay "secure" with what you have and let him treat your daughter the way he has than rough it out for your daughter.


That's sad.

Quoting Mommy of 2 + 1 angel:" I don't know. We have a child together and I am scared to try to do it all on my own. I am scared that ... [snip!] ... myself and my girls. He doesn't treat the child we have together the way he treats my daughter. I'm at a loss on what to do."

then have a serious one on one talk with him and let him know what hes doing.. maybe he just doesnt realize how it may be affecting her

and in the meantime work on trying to become at least someone independent.. look for a job even if its part time, just something so if something were to happen, you wont feel as insecure doing it on your own