Post partum bod -_- vent kinda

Okay so I am completely disgusted with my body I'm at 170 back at my weight during delivery. I lost 15 lbs now I'm gaining it all back. I havnt been eating a lot just when I need too. I can exercise much since SO always takes my car too work and we live in a bad area (until we move ) so I can't walk around much soon though

I miss my Pre pregnancy body so bad! It's gettin me depressed I can't even look at myself in the mirror without wanting to cry! I'm getting so insecure and it's even starting to affect my relationship. SO says he's attracted to be but he won't even touch or dare too look at me with the lights on.  

Anyway I can lose weight healthy an fast??
Is it possible that the way I look is why I'm feeling so depressed ??

Get a work out DVD or look up a routine online and work out from home. Count your calorie intake as well, and drink lots of water instead of other sugary beverages.

I am with you on that

except..i don't understand about your guy not touching you or looking at you with the lights on??
did he say that?

Honestly? I think depression and self image don't have a lot to do with weight. Losing weight may change the outside, but usually people will find something else to be depressed about.

I'd watch what you eat and work out in the house. The weight will come off slowly.

Your SO probably avoids looking/touching u w/the lights on because of the way u percieve yourself and the way u react to your body on display. Loosing weight fast (more than 2lbs a week) isnt healthy. It took 9mo for your body to get stretched out.....it takes time to go back. Lo carb/fat protien shakes along w/a high fiber diet and lots of water should help jump start healthy weight loss. U can find some home exercises online.....

<blockquote><b>Quoting yo gabby gabby:</b>" I am with you on that except..i don't understand about your guy not touching you or looking at you with the lights on?? did he say that?"</blockquote>




He didn't come out and say it but Everytime I try to get intimate he turns off all the lights blows out any candles I light and turns of the tv. I can take a hint. Plus I always catch him lookig at other girls and I can't help but compare myself at that point :/

The DVD thing seems like a good idea though!

So carbs are bad ??

<blockquote><b>Quoting Janessa Rileys mama ϖ:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting yo gabby gabby:</b>" I am with you on that except..i don't ... [snip!] ... girls and I can't help but compare myself at that point :/ The DVD thing seems like a good idea though! So carbs are bad ??"</blockquote>



I do the same thing ! It makes me sooo depresssed , i got thicker everywhere else which i dont mind cuss i was a little to skinny but my stomach omg its ugly i hate it , i have so many stretch marks its disgustig i had a flat tummy so i understand if u need anyone to talk to u can always write me , dont worry you JUST had your baby it will go away are u on bc ? That can be the reason for weight gain

The Post partum body isn't the best looking thing, but every week it starts to tighten.Eating right and doing some Yoga will help, but time is the key. It took me about 6 months to regain my body. I wasn't into my body, but my hubby never made me feel bad about it. I think when we started having sex again I would wear a baby doll lingerie to cover my tummy. Not because he had a problem with it, I had the issue. Maybe that's what your guy thinks you want (the lights off). If you talk to him about it, it might clarify how you both are feeling to each other. It isn't right that he looks at other women and if you already told him how it makes you feel and he still does it then I am sorry and you deserve better than that in my opinion.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Andreanna Marie:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Janessa Rileys mama ϖ:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... u can always write me , dont worry you JUST had your baby it will go away are u on bc ? That can be the reason for weight gain"</blockquote>

<blockquote><b>Quoting Andreanna Marie:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Janessa Rileys mama ϖ:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... u can always write me , dont worry you JUST had your baby it will go away are u on bc ? That can be the reason for weight gain"</blockquote>




Omg tell me about it I hatE my belly now it's disgusti but I got like bigger in my thighs and face too :/ my thighs are just so big I hate them I use to have big thighs but not this big and they was toned an my butt looked good. But now I feel like its lookig smaller cus my waist is wider/bigger idk :/


& @leighleigh idk I think it has to do with both us I think he knows how self conscious I am and at the same time doesn't wanna show dislike to make me feel worse so e just keeps the lights off too eliminate the problem.. He knows how it makes me feel cus he knows how he would feel. He just denys that he's doing It but I'll be in the car and I'll see it with my own two .