Quoting snugglemama:" I certainly wouldn't worry about what you are like flaccid. My last boyfriend was 2 inches soft.. adn ... [snip!] ... to pull on it when it was soft.. and laugh because I dont' understand how the hell the body can stretch that much. "
Guess i am a grower then.. though not a big grower. Shaving makes them look bigger so i've done that. Guys do care what they look like flaccid by the way, i guess equates to a womens cleavage in a way, though thats not quite right as its guys in the locker room who get to see.
Must admit i dont mind being a bit smaller, though surprised 8, 9 or 10 inch dicks exist outside of porn world. Went through the comparing dicks phase with friends and was always much smaller but oddly never registered with me until early 20's. Innocent i guess.