I cannot stand him!!!!!!!!

Yeah i want it to work, but im the only one trying!!!! he could care less that im crying right now, he just hangs up on me when i get emotional and im 14 weeks and we're in a long distance relationship and HE is too busy doing other stupid things to talk to me when i bring US up in the conversation. I know he's sitting at home playing video games because i call him on the house phone. He just put me on speaker to tell me he's tired of holding the phone and hates being on the phone when we'd only been on for 30 minutes. I know he's just trying to avoid the toopic of LIFE. Theres nothing i can say or do that will register through his brain that I DO want to us to be close even on the phone!!!!! i cant STAND that he hangs up on me all the time then doesnt answer when i try calling back. I HATE how he doesnt say anything except caveman smurf. Im just venting right now and this should be in the drama section but i couldnt find a post topic button so i came here and here it is, my relationship truly sucks and he doesnt see that or give a smurf that i feel this way. there's NO COMMUNICATION between us and here i am everyday thinking and hoping and wondering and when we talk 2-3 times a day he has NOTHING to say, so i tell him to USE HIS BRAIN and then he hangs up on me. I cant take it any longer!!! I put up with him all this time and IM THE pregnant one and IM THE one who's supposed to let it all out and HE'S supposed to BE THERE for me with an open ear but HE WONT. If he would just listen to me and communicate with me then i would be much much much better everyday. But im constantly stressed and hating that im pregnant sometimes!!! I smurfing dont know what to do im just typing as my thoughts lead to my fingers..go ahead, tell me im a smurffy person for having feelings, tell me im a nutcase or no one said life was fair or whatever. But I AM a great person just not to him when he makes me feel like I should never have opened my mouth and said "This is how I feel..."

Do you not think you deserve any better?

just my opinion...if he dont want to talk and you trying your best and he still not getting the picture then he must dont care and i would say eff it and let him wonder and if he continues to be the same that means he doesnt give a damn..just an opion

Girl you need to not stress your self out, baby stresses when you stress trust me I know its not easy, I went threw the same exact BS in the beginning of my pregnancy the best advice I can give you is let him be if he wants to man up an take on the responsibility as a father an work on a family for alla yous then he will step up if not you don't need him!! What good is he going to do sit on his @$$ and play video games, try not being on his case act like u don't care and he should come running I did it, and it worked, best of luck!!

exactly what im gonna do. i just deleted his number from my phone and the call log so i wont be tempted to call him. not tomorrow, not ever again until he decides to get in touch with me for once and be an adult about our situation. god i hate him right now. i was so mad i was shaking when he hung up on me. Completely dumbfounded. If im stressed and the baby gets stressed then im smurfing up because he's the major reason of all my worries. SmUrf HIM. and thanks for the feedback too. it was a relief to read what yall wrote back thats more support than he's ever shown.

Thata the best way to go about it!! You have to remain stress free your not that far into your pregnancy yet AB stress is one of the biggest causes of miscarriage, but you delete him when u have the urge to call him pick up the phone an call one of your friends an vent, you can do it I thought it was impossible but I got threw it, as can you!!

I've been in a long distance relationship for 5 years.

The guy that you are seeing? Is a complete smurf. Don't let someone do that to you.

I know how you feel. I'm in a confusing relationship also, just not long distance. When i try to talk to my baby's father he gets upset over the littlest things and it will start a fight. All the rumors people have started he feeds into that and believes them, even tho they are NOT true. I have been doing EVERYTHING on my own trying to get ready for my little bundle of joy with my mother and HIS family . . . just not him. I have cut him out of my life for a while so i can focus on my little one, & so he can realize that he needs to get his life together, and QUICK ! Iv tryed TOO hard to keep a relationship together for him to just throw it away. At this point its just the baby, His family, My Mother, & I. Which is perfectly fine. I'm not one to chance him down and " Make " Him be in Jordan ( son ) Or Aubrey's ( Daughter ) life ( Don't know the gender quit yet ). If he wants to step up to the plate and be a father then that's great but i'm not going to try to make him if he is just going to play games. Iv actually been talking to a guy that iv known for a long time and he has had a crush on me sense forever, & its kinda sad that hes here for my and the baby for then the baby daddy. But hey !! it is what it is. If baby daddy isn't ment to be in his child's life then he is ( Not saying i don't want him in my baby's life ). You just have to accept the situation and make the best out of it. All i know is i'm going to be the BEST mother i can possibly be! Just keep your head up hun and don't give up and anything. You will be a GREAT mother and that's all that matters !
- Love Amber.