re: ::stupid question:: about having a misscarriage

Quoting PhillyGirl:“ Well as a young mother of three children, you can probably answer your own question, no?”

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Quoting PhillyGirl:“ Well as a young mother of three children, you can probably answer your own question, no?”

Not really. I don't care about what age you start having kids...just having them on top of each other. I wasn't being rude so lose the attitude. My oldest is three years older than his little sister and five years older than his little brother. There is a bit of a time lapse in between my children and I find the two year age difference difficult. Having a baby after having a baby has got to be difficult. I just don't understand wanting to purposely put myself in that position. Go ahead and get snotty, though. It's honest curiosity of why you don't feel like there is enough time.

And I was told to have my children early on as well due to a family history of complete hysterectomies by the age of thirty. Doesn't mean I want multiple BABIES. I'm just trying t oget a grasp on why women would want a baby who is barely a year old and an infant.

Quoting ~Ivana331~:“ isn't it a bit soon to start for another child already? ur first child isn't even six months old yet! ... [snip!] ... was bright red and clotted then yes sadly, it was most likely a miscarriage, but it is smart to go to the doctor and make sure.”

I dont think it was too soon to be TTC for another baby , he was born in November, my son was born in November also and I am pregnant with our 2nd baby, some people like myself prefer to have our children close in age and I dont see anything wrong with it. BTW if you havent miscarried congrats and if you have I'm sorry for your loss

Quoting *Wicked Mama*:“ Not really. I don't care about what age you start having kids...just having them on top of each other. ... [snip!] ... I want multiple BABIES. I'm just trying t oget a grasp on why women would want a baby who is barely a year old and an infant.”

When they are both so small you can cram them into the same cage and they can share the same water feeder   And you only need to change the paper in the bottom of one cage... Heaps of benefits 

Quoting Nicole B:“ When they are both so small you can cram them into the same cage and they can share the same water feeder   And you only need to change the paper in the bottom of one cage... Heaps of benefits ”

    haha

Quoting Nicole B:“ When they are both so small you can cram them into the same cage and they can share the same water feeder   And you only need to change the paper in the bottom of one cage... Heaps of benefits ”

LOL I love you lol

I think it's funny how no one is really answering the question, just defending the choice. Which is dandy, but I really do want to know why and what the rush is. Having kids is hard. I have three with a decent gap in between each of them and I feel like I am losing my mind. I just can't imagine trying to take care of an infant and be pregnant at the same time. Hell no.

Quoting *Wicked Mama*:“ LOL I love you lol I think it's funny how no one is really answering the question, just defending ... [snip!] ... feel like I am losing my mind. I just can't imagine trying to take care of an infant and be pregnant at the same time. Hell no.”

I want to have kids close together so that they'll have someone to grow up withthats around their age. It was cool that I had a bro 3 years older, but we werent really on the same level. My sister and I are best friends, in my opinion, because we're in the same group of peers. I'm hoping too, that if I get my children out of the way sooner that I'll be able to enjoy my 30's and 40's much better. I might get pregnant during those years, but if I dont, at least I'd have had the children I wanted.
I dunno..just a bit of insite into how I feel about it.

This has gotten way beyond the original topic!
I am really interested in knowing if everything turned out ok?????

Quoting broken hearted mom:“ This has gotten way beyond the original topic! I am really interested in knowing if everything turned out ok?????”

Me too!

I hope she isn't turned off to coming back and confiding in us! That would be a shame.

Quoting nvoytek:“ I want to have kids close together so that they'll have someone to grow up withthats around their ... [snip!] ... years, but if I dont, at least I'd have had the children I wanted. I dunno..just a bit of insite into how I feel about it.”

Thank you very, very much for an ANSWER. I was not intending to be rude to anyone, I was asking a damn question that no one seemed capable of answering.

Now for me, my daughter and youngest are actually a good age because of their timing in birth and they will be only a year difference in school, So, they will be within the same group of peers, even though they have a two years age difference. So, I do understand. I feel my younger two will be closer than my oldest.

I still can't imagine having two babies at the same times. So, to those who do, the best of luck. I'm exhausted just thinking about it.

Quoting *Wicked Mama*:“ Thank you very, very much for an ANSWER. I was not intending to be rude to anyone, I was asking a damn ... [snip!] ... can't imagine having two babies at the same times. So, to those who do, the best of luck. I'm exhausted just thinking about it.”

  I was kinda exhausted thinking about it too. My husband and I were actually talking about that today. Our daughter will be 5 months in another week, and we're hoping to get pregnant before she's a year old. He and I both agree that we want children close together so it works out well for us