re: ::stupid question:: about having a misscarriage

Quoting ~Ivana331~:“ you ladies need to calm down! I was simply stating my opinion! all I said was that people seem to be ... [snip!] ... to try again, if they want to be popping out kids like rabbits, then more power to them, I have the right to state my opinion!”

yeah u r correct in saying that u have a right to say what u want, and they can do whatever they want but damn, who wants to hear that crap when they don't even know you. u sound like ur turning ur nose up at whats going to make them happy.

Quoting PhillyGirl:“ Popping them out like rabbits? That's a bit harsh, don't you think?”

well then I have a harsh opinion.
I just believe that adption and foster care is also a good way to go.
edit: I am leaving this thread now.

Quoting Jessica ♥:“ Umm, did everyone miss the part where she said she's passing blood clots? How about shut up about her ... [snip!] ... TTC decisions. It's not even about that. If she wanted advice as to what everyone thought about her TTC, she would have asked.”

oh hopefully her huband came and got her and she's not on here anymore!! ur right though

Quoting ~Ivana331~:“ well then I have a harsh opinion. I just believe that adption and foster care is also a good way to go.”

heres my harsh opinion, who cares what u believe

Quoting ~Ivana331~:“ yeah and people never follow doctor recommendations, but like I said if they want to be popping out kids ... [snip!] ... then fine it's their bodies that might suffer. And in my post I simply asked why people are in such a riush and move so fast.”

Well I can't speak for her but in my case I have been told since the age of 18 to have as many kids as I want as soon as I can b/c by the time I'm 30 I'll have had a full hysterectomy due to an incredibly painful and untreatable disease. So jump down off of that soap box of yours and consider for one moment that every situation is different and some of us don't have the luxury of time.

Quoting Makayla's Mom:“ oh hopefully her huband came and got her and she's not on here anymore!! ur right though”

i sure as hell hope so...

Quoting PhillyGirl:“ Well I can't speak for her but in my case I have been told since the age of 18 to have as many kids ... [snip!] ... soap box of yours and consider for one moment that every situation is different and some of us don't have the luxury of time.”

thank you. she doesn't know why this women wants to have them all right away. she just talking out the side of her neck like someone asked her

Quoting ~Ivana331~:“ well then I have a harsh opinion. I just believe that adption and foster care is also a good way to go. edit: I am leaving this thread now.”

so are you giving your baby up for adoption then? You said its a great way to go, right?

Not everyone uses birth control....myself included. So I dont think she's rushing...IMO. My doctor wanted to put me on birth control, but I dont believe in using it. If I get pregnant, I get pregnant whether its next week or 3 years from now......its not a rush to some people.

Anyways,
We are waaaaay off topic here.
If you're passing clots and bleeding, its probably best to just get to the ER and have your husband meet you there.

Quoting PhillyGirl:“ Well I can't speak for her but in my case I have been told since the age of 18 to have as many kids ... [snip!] ... soap box of yours and consider for one moment that every situation is different and some of us don't have the luxury of time.”

Isn't that the truth. My doctor told me the same thing so we will have them as quickly as we want to and I don't think it's a poor decision at all, it's just a personal one. She doesn't need anyone's approval.
Good luck! I hope everything goes well for you and you find out good news at the hospital.

I hope all goes well at the ER. Please let us know and I will keep you in my thoughts!
Hugs!

Quoting ~Ivana331~:“ I am just surprised peole move so fast, plus like I said doctor's recommend giving your body a year and half at least between pregnancies to recover.”

It shocks me how fast women want to have babies. Having my middle child and youngest so close is driving me nuts and there is two years between them!! I really don't understand not waiting at least a year. Especially young mothers. What the hell is the rush? Pregnancy and babies are both extremely hard work. Why do that to yourself? Yet I see women on here all of the time TTC when their babies are still very very young.

*edit* I'm not saying anything judgmental. I honestly wonder why.

Quoting Jessica ♥:“ Umm, did everyone miss the part where she said she's passing blood clots? How about shut up about her ... [snip!] ... TTC decisions. It's not even about that. If she wanted advice as to what everyone thought about her TTC, she would have asked.”

THANK YOU! the point of this thread was she was worried about her BABY -- not about what anyone thinks -- we need to be supportive of each other and back her up when she is worried!

Quoting *Wicked Mama*:“ It shocks me how fast women want to have babies. Having my middle child and youngest so close is driving ... [snip!] ... the time TTC when their babies are still very very young. *edit* I'm not saying anything judgmental. I honestly wonder why.”

thank you for understanding my POV.

Quoting *Wicked Mama*:“ It shocks me how fast women want to have babies. Having my middle child and youngest so close is driving ... [snip!] ... the time TTC when their babies are still very very young. *edit* I'm not saying anything judgmental. I honestly wonder why.”

Well as a young mother of three children, you can probably answer your own question, no?