Boyfriend wants me to get abortion I dont want to.

Hi everyone,
I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have a 5 year old daughter (not his) and he has 4 kids from his previous relationship. I am supportive of those kids and always treat them like my own. I have had 6 abortions in the past. (2 of his) . I am currently 6 weeks pregnant by him and he wants me to get an abortion but i dont want to. He says hes not supportive of me keeping the baby. I got pregnant while on the pill. I was late taking one pill. Im scared hes going to leave me if i decide to keep the baby. His last 3 kids werent planned (last 2 being twins) i just dont get this  

Tell him you want to keep the baby and he needs to wrap his smurf or get a vasectomy if he doesn't want anymore kids.

If it is not something you want to do 100%, don't do it. Let him leave. Good luck!

It's your body. You're the one carrying the fetus. He can't make that decision.

Tell him you are keeping it and schedule a vasectomy so it doesn't happen again!

If you don't want to, don't. And either way, afterwards you two really need to do some researching on better forms of birth control. Good luck.

I would weigh the pros and cons of both options.

But honestly..if my DH game me an ultimatum like that without discussing it...he could walk. also..if he feels that strongly then he needs to get a vasectomy.

Quoting babynumbertwo06:" Hi everyone, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have a 5 year old daughter (not his) and he ... [snip!] ... hes going to leave me if i decide to keep the baby. His last 3 kids werent planned (last 2 being twins) i just dont get this  "

Tell him to smurf off. Why doesn't he want you having his kids?
In the end YOUR BODY YOUR CHOICE!

Tell him get to walkin' if he doesn't want to be apart of it all.

DON'T let him make you do what you don't want to do!

its not his body they are invading. tell him to F off


not to come off wrong but you need to look into birth control

If you don't want one, don't have one. Plain and simple.

Is he the one with the occupied uterus? Then it's not his choice.

Quoting Buffy♥:" If you don't want to, don't. And either way, afterwards you two really need to do some researching on better forms of birth control. Good luck."

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i wouldnt care if he left me. he seems selfish. Anyway, hope you figure it out.

If you don't want to have an abortion then don't, but if you decide to have this baby and he leaves let that be his choice and do not force him to be apart of this babys life since he did not want this baby to begin with. It can't be good on your body to keep having abortions. Whether you keep this baby or not you both need to get in the habit of using birth control, that way you don't have to keep putting your body and emotions through this.

Quoting Lebend. Lachen. Liebe™:" Tell him to smurf off. Why doesn't he want you having his kids? In the end YOUR BODY YOUR CHOICE! ... [snip!] ... Tell him get to walkin' if he doesn't want to be apart of it all. DON'T let him make you do what you don't want to do!"

this!

SmUrf HIM!

He can have all the kids he wants but if you get pregnant by him you need an abortion?

SmUrf THAT Smurf. Do what you want to do.