re: Boyfriend wants me to get abortion I dont want to.

please do not get an abortion if it not your choice 100%!!!!


he needs to get a vasectomy ffs

Ive gotten pregnant on multiple birth controls, pills, IUD, and ring. THe doctor says im really highly fertile.

Quoting babynumbertwo06:" Hi everyone, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have a 5 year old daughter (not his) and he ... [snip!] ... hes going to leave me if i decide to keep the baby. His last 3 kids werent planned (last 2 being twins) i just dont get this  "

The choice is yours. Keep in mind though that you may end up doing this alone, with no help, no money, nothing. Be prepared for the worst. I personally wouldn't want to be with someone who has that many kids and keeps knocking me up. I suggest you just leave him and raise that kid alone...

<blockquote><b>Quoting wilde_mommy:</b>" If you don't want to have an abortion then don't, but if you decide to have this baby and he leaves let ... [snip!] ... need to get in the habit of using birth control, that way you don't have to keep putting your body and emotions through this."</blockquote>




It's harder on u your body to have 6 kids than it is to have 6 abortions

Holy smurfing constant conception, Batman!

 

Quoting blank page:" The choice is yours. Keep in mind though that you may end up doing this alone, with no help, no money, ... [snip!] ... to be with someone who has that many kids and keeps knocking me up. I suggest you just leave him and raise that kid alone..."

you may want to keep this child and then get something permanent like your tubes tied.

Quoting wilde_mommy:" If you don't want to have an abortion then don't, but if you decide to have this baby and he leaves let ... [snip!] ... need to get in the habit of using birth control, that way you don't have to keep putting your body and emotions through this."

Child birth is harder on you than abortion is.  

Quoting Shannonsfirst:" you may want to keep this child and then get something permanent like your tubes tied. "

Who says she doesn't want kids later on?

Quoting Vivacious:" <blockquote><b>Quoting wilde_mommy:</b>" If you don't want to have an abortion then ... [snip!] ... and emotions through this."</blockquote> It's harder on u your body to have 6 kids than it is to have 6 abortions"

!!!!!!

He doesn't get to make that decision for you. It's your body. If you don't want an abortion then don't get one. If he doesn't want more kids he should go and get a vasectomy.

Quoting babynumbertwo06:" Ive gotten pregnant on multiple birth controls, pills, IUD, and ring. THe doctor says im really highly fertile."

have you tried implanon.

i got pregnant on birth control as well unfortunately ended in miscarriage each time.
implanon is working great for me!
and have him wrap it of course (ik thats not 100% either as well my daughter is a condom baby) make sure he pulls out if you dont use condoms. avoid sex during ovulation..

Quoting Shannonsfirst:" you may want to keep this child and then get something permanent like your tubes tied. "

She only has 1 kid... What if she wnats kids later on?

Its either God or Satan who has the same problem as she does...

I would never tell someone to get their tubes tied because they had so many abortions...

Quoting blank page:" Child birth is harder on you than abortion is.  "

But I also said hard on her emotions, I was not just talking about her physically. And yes too many abortions or a botched abortion can be very bad on your body. My sister best friend had an abortion, they totally screwed up and she had to end up getting surgery to correct her uterus. Yes I know that is extremely rare but it can happen.

Ive told him i dont want one, and that im keeping the baby and he says sorry no your not. its going to ruin us. I keep saying only if you let it ruin us.

I dont get him, he has 4 kids with a woman who doesnt take care of her kids (he has them all the time) , but yet i take care of my kid by myself and he knows im not going anywhere