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so my super douche of an ex is demanding time alone with my son. Naw mate. Anyway, he's threatening to take legal action to get it. I'm breast feeding. Is there any way that he would be granted access to my son, alone, for an extended period? Could they order that i use another method of feeding him to allow this? Or will super douche just have to shut his bitch hole and get the smurf over it?
Please and thanks.

No they can't tell you how to feed your baby and depends on the baby's age and if you can pump enough for extended periods

that's what i mean, sorry. I don't want to express. He's not even four weeks old and i can barely leave him for an hour.

Quoting Boomy :" so my super douche of an ex is demanding time alone with my son. Naw mate. Anyway, he's threatening to ... [snip!] ... feeding him to allow this? Or will super douche just have to shut his bitch hole and get the smurf over it? Please and thanks."

if the judge believs you're using it to keep LO away from him.. YES. He'll still likely get alone time.. just not for extended periods of time.

Balls. I don't want to be away from him =(

Quoting Boomy :" Balls. I don't want to be away from him =("

it's not about you, it's about your son- and his need for a father as well as a mother

<blockquote><b>Quoting snugglemama:</b>" it's not about you, it's about your son- and his need for a father as well as a mother"</blockquote>




Yeah and if the father is wanting to get some visitation you have to give a little more too. He needs his dad just as much as he needs you and you are depriving him of the right he has to both parents. How else will your BD learn is not by experience? He needs to be given the opportunity to be there.

he can see him anytime he wants. Just with me in the same building.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Boomy :</b>" he can see him anytime he wants. Just with me in the same building."</blockquote>



Unless he is danger to the child he has every right to alone time away from you.

he's mentally unstable.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Boomy :</b>" he's mentally unstable."</blockquote>




Then get proof and he will get supervised visitation but he will be allowed to have him for extended periods just supervised.