rawwwrrr! *vent*

Agh! I just want to scream at the top of my lungs! DDs father makes me so freaking mad. He and I had been talking about getting back together...we'd be hanging out, sleeping together some and doing family stuff...for like a month, however he had not broken up with his girlfriend like he kept saying he was going to...I know if was smurfed up of me to do that to her but I wanted my family back together...anyways, he and I got into it the other day because I said I wasn't going to let him cheat on her anymore, if he wanted to work things out with me he had to leave her first...during out fight he tells me to bring him the papers and he would sign over his rights..."you can have her" he said...who the smurf says that about their child?! I was so hurt by it...then today I told him he should keep bella 5 nights a week for 2 weeks to see what its like for me...and he said "smurf you! Give me 50% and cut the child support and I will"...seriously? I don't want it to be forever, I just want him to know what I do, see what its like....I figured out he doesn't want to leave her because she let's him do whatever he wants...he goes out most nights of the week or has his friends over to her house where they get wasted...WHILE HER CHILD IS THERE....he was telling me how she had her kid going to the fridge to get beer for people...WHAT THE SmUrf...and you expect me to be okay with this girl being around my kid?! ...aghhh! I'm so annoyed...I try not to think I'm better than people...but I feel so above them...it kills me...I bust my ass to work and go to school and have DD by myself 5-6 nights a week and he works a dead end job and gets smurfed up all the time with his gf who also works a dead end job...I can't imagine being okay with living paycheck to paycheck...I'm just so damn annoyed with all this...clearly us getting back together isn't an option....rawwrrr...I wish I could break something!

Quoting Bella's Mommy ♥:" Agh! I just want to scream at the top of my lungs! DDs father makes me so freaking mad. He and I had ... [snip!] ... so damn annoyed with all this...clearly us getting back together isn't an option....rawwrrr...I wish I could break something!"

Why would you tell him to keep your daughter 5 nights a week when he wants to sign over his rights & acts that way around other children?

aww I'm so sorry you're going through this! I hope things get better soon!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting DEGO™[OB]:</b>" Why would you tell him to keep your daughter 5 nights a week when he wants to sign over his rights & acts that way around other children?"</blockquote>

I would only want him to do it for like a week, maybe 2...I want him to see what its like to actually be a hands on parent for the most part...he only has her 1-2 nights a week right now..the rest of the time he's out getting wasted...he doesn't understand how much I put into raising our daughter