re: Failed Kingarden

Quoting babygaga_mommy:“ Just because some of the ladies that responded don't have children of their own yet, doesn't mean that ... [snip!] ... areas. If you don't know how to spell something or use proper grammar, how the hell are you supposed to teach your child to???”

How in the hell was i suppose to know why he was being bad at school i couldn figure it out and with helping him i did help him you dont know my son and i was told by the teacher no to force him because thats not good so i would study with him i even made up flash cards and helped him ever nite i even told him if he remeberd his words i would buy him skating shoes he really wanted and you know he still had a hard time with them and if you dont know what is it like having a kid with addhd you have no clue how hard it is for him to study he is doing alot better now that he is on his meds yeah my spelling might not have been that good but i think i know how to spell words they use in K so dont blame that shit on

Quoting babygaga_mommy:“ Just because some of the ladies that responded don't have children of their own yet, doesn't mean that ... [snip!] ... areas. If you don't know how to spell something or use proper grammar, how the hell are you supposed to teach your child to???”

i am not making excuses ..but i have witnessed first hand what has been going on with this teacher and like she has said you don' t have a kid with add or adhd..they can be very difficult to teach..and being a nanny is totally different than your own kids...my kids listen to everyone else very well but they act different with me ..so it is not the same.

oh and as I have said b4..spelling has nothing to do with being a good parent...and the topic was advice on how to tell her son that he failed.........

Quoting Christy61607:“ How in the hell was i suppose to know why he was being bad at school i couldn figure it out and with ... [snip!] ... yeah my spelling might not have been that good but i think i know how to spell words they use in K so dont blame that shit on”

How are you to know why he was acting out... You're not supposed to just know... but there are ways to get that type of information. Such as talking to him and the teacher and finding out if its the same person, what was going on at the time and so forth. If you can't figure that out on your own then there is something wrong.

I'll blame his failing on you if I damn well please. I mean its kindergarten for God sakes and even if he has add or adhd or whatever, there is no excuse that he didn't get the help he needed to move on to first grade... other than you didn't do everything that you could and help him out more. That's the only "reason" I believe he failed... You didn't do what you should have as much as you should have.

Quoting babygaga_mommy:“ How are you to know why he was acting out... You're not supposed to just know... but there are ways ... [snip!] ... him out more. That's the only "reason" I believe he failed... You didn't do what you should have as much as you should have.”

i really dont care if you blame me or not i know i did my best that that matters and any ways i didn ask who do u blame for my son failing i asked how do tell him that he did fail

Quoting 28 DAYS!!!:“ i am not making excuses ..but i have witnessed first hand what has been going on with this teacher and ... [snip!] ... than your own kids...my kids listen to everyone else very well but they act different with me ..so it is not the same.”

You're right... being a nanny to someone else's child/children is different than taking care of your own and teaching your own... You're more limited with children that you nanny than you are to your own children. If your children don't listen to you, that's your problem. Which is something that you can only be at fault for.

Quoting 28 DAYS!!!:“ oh and as I have said b4..spelling has nothing to do with being a good parent...and the topic was advice on how to tell her son that he failed.........”

I never once said she was a bad/poor parent due to her not being able to spell. Matter of a fact I never once said she was a bad/poor parent for that matter.

However, I do know that her not being able to spell simple words or knowing the difference between similar words (i.e. their, they're and there) are in fact going to hinder her child/children's learning abilities if he is to go to her for help with spelling.

Just because you can spell words that they use in kindergarten that doesn't mean you can spell words they'll use later on in first grade, jr high or high school.. which you should be able to.

Quoting Christy61607:“ i really dont care if you blame me or not i know i did my best that that matters and any ways i didn ask who do u blame for my son failing i asked how do tell him that he did fail”

Easy... You tell him the truth.

You tell him that he is going to be doing kindergarten over again and not going to the first grade...

When he asks why you tell him it is due to the reasons you listed as the teacher told you.

Quoting babygaga_mommy:“ I never once said she was a bad/poor parent due to her not being able to spell. Matter of a fact I never ... [snip!] ... doesn't mean you can spell words they'll use later on in first grade, jr high or high school.. which you should be able to.”

Honie,

It's like beating a dead horse. Obviously she is too ignorant to know what she did wrong. Obviously she is going to sit here and tell us that she did ALL she could to help her son out. ADHD is not a learning disablilty and if he is on medication, I don't get why he would still be so out of control that it was effecting his learning. OP face it, there are things that you could have done to help him out. Have you told him yet?

Quoting Ally (♥'sBrycen):“ Honie, It's like beating a dead horse. Obviously she is too ignorant to know what she did wrong. Obviously ... [snip!] ... it was effecting his learning. OP face it, there are things that you could have done to help him out. Have you told him yet?”

  I think beating a dead horse is more beneficial.

She's probably going to tell you that he got on medication after it was "too late" and she couldn't get him on it sooner because she didn't know of the issue... just knew that he was being mean to this person or that person since that's what the teacher told her.  

Quoting babygaga_mommy:“   I think beating a dead horse is more beneficial. She's probably going to tell you that he got on ... [snip!] ... of the issue... just knew that he was being mean to this person or that person since that's what the teacher told her.  ”

Exactly.

Useless.

Quoting babygaga_mommy:“ I never once said she was a bad/poor parent due to her not being able to spell. Matter of a fact I never ... [snip!] ... doesn't mean you can spell words they'll use later on in first grade, jr high or high school.. which you should be able to.”

till you have a kid with the problems my kid has then i dont think you should judge me i notice there is alot of kids that fail there first yr in school i can spell i just typed it wrong i have a high school diploma like i said before i believe i did try my best me and him have a hard time working together so i even had diff family members helping him out and i really blame it on the teacher like for a example his real name is tony but he call hm tj for short i didn know till the middle of school that he need to be able to right his full name tony but on all the work he brought home said tj so how in the hell was i suppose to know now that he is on meds he is doing alot better but he is still behind. i didn figure out that he had addhd till march i had to say something to her about it then she said yeah she does think he has it but she never did say nothing before when i found out that he was failing i asked her if there was things i could do to help and i would do those things

I failed Kindergarden cause I would not talk to anyone.

My mom ( or the lady I knew as mom ) Passed away due to cancer, There is multiple reasons that someone could fail kindergarden. It does not have to be you are a bad parent all the time.

Quoting Ally (♥'sBrycen):“ Exactly. Useless.”

well before you seat here and talk about some one you should look up what addhd does to people because yes it does have alot to with learning you dont know ever know me to be seating here saying stuff for and for you ask me if i asked i told him yet well then i think you need to read what i wrote beforethat is what i was asking how to do tell him i didn ask who in the hell you blame

Quoting Christy61607:“ well before you seat here and talk about some one you should look up what addhd does to people because ... [snip!] ... i think you need to read what i wrote beforethat is what i was asking how to do tell him i didn ask who in the hell you blame”

You dont even fucking know what it's called!!

It is either ADHD or ADD, not a mix of the two. What you are calling it is Attention Defficet Disorder Hyperactive Disorder. <-- NOT correct

Dipshit, do some research. The meds could be doing more bad than good. Why don't you look up some other remedies.