|dont tell him|
Quoting Deborah Stechschulte:" You aren't a horrible person, and by no means a slut. Honestly I think it's kind of natural -- I think ... [snip!] ... if it fades as quickly as it came up, then there's nothing really there. Good call on the 'can't be friends' thing though."
Quoting PANDORAX1:" thanks.... im just sooo worried that my mrriag be ruined over thise could"
Quoting PANDORAX1:" lol...so worried my marriage could be ruined over this"Just be honest. If nothing happened between the two of you, and it was just old feelings being stirred up, explain that. But also explain that you would never stray, it was uncomfortable to have those strange feelings, and you needed to talk to him, your one true love, about it.
Quoting PANDORAX1:" it hurts as well because ill never be able to have him as a friend again... i'm not mad that he feels ... [snip!] ... that he feels that way about me... im angry he told me... if he never would have told me i wouldnt be in that situation..... "Yep yep. Telling you wasn't going to change anything between you and he, in a good way at least. He should have known that.