Jus feeling Sad..

Well I told my daughters fathers brother about me and my ex ( his bro) having a daughter till now she's been his secret Smh and I was hoping he would respond in a positive way but nope he completely ignored the MSG. and her photos and even changed his FB name I've done all I've can except for showing up at his parents house with my daughter which I won't and can't do....idk it just makes me sad

Forget them. Thats a terrible reaction and i'm presuming the father had a a bad one too...

I know its hard, but they wont be part of you and your LO's lives. Accept it, and move forward.

*e-hugs*

<blockquote><b>Quoting whoknowsx:</b>" Forget them. Thats a terrible reaction and i'm presuming the father had a a bad one too... I know its hard, but they wont be part of you and your LO's lives. Accept it, and move forward. *e-hugs*"</blockquote>



Ty...yeah he was a total her during my pregnancy and after but he's met her once and we kept in touch till about 10mo ago the he just started ignoring my calls...its jus upsetting after 6years for him to simply act like I don't exist but most of all just to ignore our child it's like depressing ....but Thanx for the post

Quoting TxzMommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting whoknowsx:</b>" Forget them. Thats a terrible reaction and i'm ... [snip!] ... him to simply act like I don't exist but most of all just to ignore our child it's like depressing ....but Thanx for the post"

Yeah it's remarkable how quickly "men" can change -- but thats a reflection of his character, not of you.... Def. allow yourself time to mourn, to be angry, to be hurt... and then allow yourself to let joy back in.

<blockquote><b>Quoting whoknowsx:</b>" Yeah it's remarkable how quickly "men" can change -- but thats a reflection of his character, not of ... [snip!] ... not of you.... Def. allow yourself time to mourn, to be angry, to be hurt... and then allow yourself to let joy back in. "</blockquote>




I'm tryin I really am...Ty again it's appreciated *hugs*

Aw im sorry mamas. If possible, put his ass on child support and just move on and enjoy your LO. One day he will get his.

My husband just left and I am 5 months with twins and refuses to tell his family about us having twins. He was hesistant to tell them about our daughter who is now 10 months as well. It hurts and even when he does start to pay child support, that will not make up for his denial. I don't want my babies being denied, these loser are just missing out.

<blockquote><b>Quoting maymays:</b>" My husband just left and I am 5 months with twins and refuses to tell his family about us having twins. ... [snip!] ... pay child support, that will not make up for his denial. I don't want my babies being denied, these loser are just missing out."</blockquote>

That's what really gets me is him denying it u know I don't want money no nothing just be there for her know her but no he told me he rather go to jail then pay child support and that when she's 18 she can find him if she wants and it's cus she's a girl when he thought she was a boy he wanted to buy him this and that my dad did the same to my mother cus I was a girl all he has is girls no boys none of them want anything to do with him except for me I talk to him once in awhile