Quoting preggosrthebestest:" MOMS ONLY PLEASE I wanted to know what some of you thought about this Can a mother better say whether ... [snip!] ... kids they know what you need or what it takes and how serious motherhood or parenthood actually is what is your take on this?"
I am not a mom but I am going to comment hope that is okay, anyway to me some moms are just too quick to over analyze someones situation no one is perfect nothing is perfect ... and if I analyzed a pregnant womans life or a moms life I'd find things that are definitely not ideal
lots of moms are not in ideal situations yet they will look down on someone who wants to be a parent really badly
saying thinks like you only have one car are you really ready lol
you are single are you really ready
what if you lose your income.. this could happen to anyone at anytime and you can not predict the future
just think people have no right to really say who should be a parent and who should not ...but that is just my opinion haha