Quoting Link:" I dont know what to tell you. Does he have any kids? I have had an abortion. I was not with the guy for any longer than 3 weeks and I was spregnant. Do what you feel is right. "
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" You have to do what you feel is best for you. You say he's listening, how would he feel about raising a child with you? Would he be there to help? "
Quoting Whattodo:" He doesn't have any children, He's great with them, I'm shocked that he doesn't have any, he's in his early 30's"
Quoting Link:" Well talk to him about keeping it. As much as he says hes listening, it seems like he wants you to get an abortion so he isnt responsible for any of his blood kids.."That's exactly what I was thinking! When it's all said & done the choice is yours, not his. It's your body!!
Quoting Whattodo:" We haven't even talked about keeping it, He isn't happy about this. He strongly believes that the stress ... [snip!] ... having a child will ruin us and I know if I kept it that he would be involved with the child, he would be a fantastic father."
Quoting (MAM) Lilah's milkbar:" The only one that can figure out if it's right for you, is yourself. How far along are you? If you are ... [snip!] ... If you do not think you can go through an abortion, then don't. Do you think that for you, it may be "easier" to do adoption?"
Quoting Whattodo:" I don't know if this sounds cruel, but I believe adoption would be a million times harder. If I'm going ... [snip!] ... I'm 5 weeks, I know though that if I see a heart beating on the ultrasound screen this will become a million times harder."