Quoting Whattodo:" I've recently found myself in a tough spot. I already have two children, a two year old and an 8 month ... [snip!] ... on the nuvaring. I'm looking for supportive words, maybe your own journey and experience. I feel very confused right now."
im pretty sure i got pregnant on the nuvaring as well
i have one daughter she is about to be 4 in a few months & am now pregnant with my 2nd
i only knew the guy a month before i found out i am pregnant, i didn't see the relationship going anywhere but in my heart i knew i couldn't and can't get an abortion.
if its not in your heart to get the abortion then don't, it will hurt so much more to abort if your hearts not in it then to keep the baby and go through the craziness of 3 kids.
i had an abortion when i was 17 so i am not against abortion my heart wasnt in it then i knew the guy for a while but i hadnt graduated high school yet & had so much ahead of me the guy refused to help me out and told me he would leave the state if i kept it my friends told me i needed to abort and at the end of the day i was dropped off at planned parenthood and told to do it. so i did it, i still think about it every day and it breaks my heart. although i wouldn't have my daughter and probably wouldn't be pregnant with this one. if he says he would support your decision but its your relationship that could be in jeopardy then think of it this way - there is no guarantee that the relationship will work out either way. so think about what you want and your heart first.