Gone

trying to let it go.....

How old are you? And getting pregant by a 17 year old.. hard to say unless we know background about him. SOME (not many) gys are mature at 17 and can take the responsibility.. many cant. I feel bad for you, but I dont think you did anything wrong. I think he was mentally out of the relatiosnship long before he even told you. Probably before he even met this "new" girl and you guys broke up.

Quoting AlmostFree6.7.12:" I was talking to my BD last night...and he tried to make our brreak up seem like it was all my fault...saying ... [snip!] ... off doing other things but I dont need to feel like its my fault... ormaybe I shouldnt have gotten pregnant by a 17 y/o..."

hes 17. thats teenagers for ya.

Quoting ~*Mommy of 5*~:" How old are you? And getting pregant by a 17 year old.. hard to say unless we know background about him. ... [snip!] ... out of the relatiosnship long before he even told you. Probably before he even met this "new" girl and you guys broke up."

im just a year and some months older ,I met him when he was 16...and I was 17

Quoting jade n my boys ♥:" hes 17. thats teenagers for ya."

he started off being so awesome...but then it just started to go downhill

Quoting AlmostFree6.7.12:" he started off being so awesome...but then it just started to go downhill"

sounds like my ex. and he was 23 some men are just smurfs.

Sorry momma   hope things get better.
It's not your fault, if he really wanted to be in the relationship, he would of done everything he could to make it work, like one of the other ladies said, i think he was mentally over the relationship long before he told you. Don't stress yourself out about it, you're about to experience a whole different and much better love very very soon!

Well he's not even a man yet idk what to tell you? Move on find a better man, a more mature man

Quoting Diam0nd InThe Dust:" Sorry momma   hope things get better. It's not your fault, if he really wanted to be in the relationship, ... [snip!] ... told you. Don't stress yourself out about it, you're about to experience a whole different and much better love very very soon!"

thanks...im kinda anxious im like 5 days overdue now -_-

Quoting MomOfTwins&pregoAgain:" Well he's not even a man yet idk what to tell you? Move on find a better man, a more mature man"

yeah thats true...and I do need to find a Man...I just need to get his foot off my heart first...

Quoting Diam0nd InThe Dust:" Sorry momma   hope things get better. It's not your fault, if he really wanted to be in the relationship, ... [snip!] ... told you. Don't stress yourself out about it, you're about to experience a whole different and much better love very very soon!"

Very well said. Once that bubba is here you gotta focus on that