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if your childs bio father who your child has never met said I want to meet my son but i live in a different state.... what would you say or do?

Better get yo ass over here then!

how old is your son? is this a whim or is he going to actually make the effort to see him often?

Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:" how old is your son? is this a whim or is he going to actually make the effort to see him often?"

 

How old is ur child? Why has he not been there? I wouldnt deny him to see ur child, the child wouldn't be here with out him

Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:" how old is your son? is this a whim or is he going to actually make the effort to see him often?"

hes 20 months old... and he said he's never coming back to this state becuz there's too much drama...

I'd say if he wants to see him then he obviously needs to plan a trip to where you guys live and you guys can all three meet up somewhere.

Quoting [yo.]:" Better get yo ass over here then!"

 

Quoting dirtylilhamster:" hes 20 months old... and he said he's never coming back to this state becuz there's too much drama..."

lol, in that case I'd say your loss. Is he expecting you to pack up your kid and take him however many states away to meet his dad who hasn't ever put forth the effort to do so in the last almost two years?

Quoting Mikeys Mommy {BBM}:" How old is ur child? Why has he not been there? I wouldnt deny him to see ur child, the child wouldn't be here with out him"

he left when he found out i was pregnant, and i wouldnt deny him to see him but im not letting my son go to a different state without me

Quoting dirtylilhamster:" hes 20 months old... and he said he's never coming back to this state becuz there's too much drama..."

Unless he makes the effort, I'd say go to hell. That's what I would do.

Quoting dirtylilhamster:" hes 20 months old... and he said he's never coming back to this state becuz there's too much drama..."

Then I would tell him get down here or you are smurf out of luck.

Quoting dirtylilhamster:" hes 20 months old... and he said he's never coming back to this state becuz there's too much drama..."

I would say if he wants to see his son he has to come to you

Quoting MommyRu:" Unless he makes the effort, I'd say go to hell. That's what I would do."

This.

My son is 3yrs old & his father has only seen him a handful of times. The last time was over a year ago. (I haven't even SPOKE with him for over a yr) If he ever randomly called & wanted to see Cadyn, I would say no.