Ranty rant rant

Well it's about sm*rfing time for a rant. Seriously though. I am a kind person and I try to be forgiving and understanding and good to others and all that. I believe in love and kindness. However, when it comes to my son. Shape up. What the sm*rf is wrong with my son's grandparents? WHO, WHY, and for WHAT reason would you not want to embrace your own blood--your own family member?? My son's grandparents (on his dumbass BD side) have never met my son. Like really?? What is wrong with you. I offered. I sent pictures and a letter. 6 months later. Nothing, nada. But here's a fun fact I just learned!!! Grandma was out strolling the neighborhood with BD new girlfriend's baby! Don't pretend, that's not your f-ing grandchild. I'll get over it. Just thought I'd rant a little.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ItsEasyIfYouTry:</b>" Well it's about sm*rfing time for a rant. Seriously though. I am a kind person and I try to be forgiving ... [snip!] ... BD new girlfriend's baby! Don't pretend, that's not your f-ing grandchild. I'll get over it. Just thought I'd rant a little."</blockquote>


My dad lives 20 minutes away and has never met my daughter. She's six months old   oh well.

SSorry to hear that. Not trying to sound heartless but if they spend time with the other grandchild and not yours you just gotta kind of move on. I wouldn't want people who spend time/pay more attention to the other grandchild but not to your child to see him anyways. He's better off and you should realize that.

Again didn't mean to sound heartless and sorry you're in this situation.

Quoting SKANT:" SSorry to hear that. Not trying to sound heartless but if they spend time with the other grandchild and ... [snip!] ... anyways. He's better off and you should realize that. Again didn't mean to sound heartless and sorry you're in this situation."

You don't sound heartless. and yeah I should realize my son is better off. It's my expectations that are messin me up. Note: the other baby isn't even their grandchild. just BD's new girlfriend's kid.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ItsEasyIfYouTry:</b>" You don't sound heartless. and yeah I should realize my son is better off. It's my expectations that ... [snip!] ... It's my expectations that are messin me up. Note: the other baby isn't even their grandchild. just BD's new girlfriend's kid. "</blockquote>




I just didn't know how that was going to sound. Maybe is has to do with lack of relationship with you and BD so they just put yall on the back burner. 

Quoting SKANT:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ItsEasyIfYouTry:</b>" You don't sound heartless. and yeah I ... [snip!] ... was going to sound. Maybe is has to do with lack of relationship with you and BD so they just put yall on the back burner. "

yes, i've thought of that before too. it is possible they are just being ignorant and loyal to him at the same time.