Quoting mommy to a lil monkey!:" Yeah no i told him WE should wait at lease a little bit .. wait till im done school and take it from there... I don't want to get married just so he can join"
Quoting Chasity McLean:" if you didnt have a kid together it would no be an issue, but because you do he has to give you atleast ... [snip!] ... you to get married because its cheaper than the first option which is minimum 800 bucks because it has to me done by a lawyer."
Quoting PhukinA!:" I meant paperwork wise as far as you going with him to his duty stations. He can join single. I think it is very responsible of you to want to wait until you are done with school though."
Quoting Chasity McLean:" if you have the money to establish custody i would do that. recruiters tell you to get married because ... [snip!] ... for money, so they dont usually have a spare 800 laying around. bu they wont let him join until you do one or the other."okay.. thank you very much!(: