He always has to push his luck.

I have no problem with my husband going out once in a while to blow off steam. However, he always pushes his luck. Today he asks me "do you mind if I go out tomorrow night with the guys?" I say no I don't mind. Then it's "Hey I think we're going to play golf on Sunday, too". By this point I'm annoyed. Then he tells me "Oh and (insert name here) wants me to help him (insert lame task here) and then we're going to jam. I'll be gone before you get up and be back around four and we're leaving to go have dinner and go out at 6". So now it's turned into tomorrow, tomorrow night and Sunday. He goes back to work on Monday and there goes any help I was hoping on getting for the weekend.

He works around 75% of the time... I'm talking leaves on Friday and comes back on Wednesday (yay military). He spends all his time with him and then he wants to spend his one weekend off this month with them, too? I'm not his mother and I don't feel like I should tell him no, but at the same time I'm pissed. Any time I bring it up I'm being "naggy" because all the other guys get to do whatever they want... um yeah... because the majority of the other guys are single. The ones who are married don't have kids. Not the same. This is what I get for being a "cool" wife.

I honestly want to drop kick him. He's about to have 7 months to do whatever the smurf he wants because we're leaving to go home to set up house before he gets out of the military. 7 months of no kids and no wife. Smurf off then smurf  

Vent OVER.

i would of said no, time with family is more important.

I always say... I don't mind so long as...get done before

I'd ask him at which point does family time fit into his busy weekend schedule

We have a standard rule for us. Everything must at moderation. If you go over, you lose the rights. This applies to going out, computer time, video games- etc.

Quoting zombie.:" i would of said no, time with family is more important."

I need to. This is my fault... I let it get to this point. I should have spoken up a long time ago instead of pretending it's okay. I just feel like 24 is so young and I want him to have fun. I'm going to tell him he has to choose... golf or going out and he isn't going all day tomorrow. It just isn't right.

Quoting Bad {MAM} -A- Jamma:" I'd ask him at which point does family time fit into his busy weekend schedule "

His priorities are whack. He's going to regret this when we're gone for 7 months.... like be super depressed and upset. I know him.

Quoting T-Swizzle+2:" I need to. This is my fault... I let it get to this point. I should have spoken up a long time ago instead ... [snip!] ... fun. I'm going to tell him he has to choose... golf or going out and he isn't going all day tomorrow. It just isn't right. "

What about YOUR fun, hon? Do you ever get time to yourself or a girls night?