re: Using a donor?

Quoting wantenabuddabelly:" After a certain age sure but a young person choosing this is insane to me since there are many options i don't know just crazy to me that a young person would do this"

Older doesnt always mean more mature. If the person is over 18 has their finances in order then what does it matter.

some people have medical issues (like the last thread you were in trying to make the girl fully explain why she was doing this when she clearly told you to leave her alone) or there are lesbian couples that use it, I think it's a wonderful thing. You obviously are still stuck on this since you had to make another thread for it.

Quoting Stevie Renae™:" some people have medical issues (like the last thread you were in trying to make the girl fully explain ... [snip!] ... that use it, I think it's a wonderful thing. You obviously are still stuck on this since you had to make another thread for it."

ahhhh

Quoting yo gabby gabby:" ahhhh"

yeah bitch is crazy.

excuse me little smurf smurf i am not crazy very coherent and lucid actually just curious and people on here are not very open i am very open about my story if you are on this site you should be open about your story people will ask things people are curious.

Quoting wantenabuddabelly:" excuse me little smurf smurf i am not crazy very coherent and lucid actually just curious and people on ... [snip!] ... very open about my story if you are on this site you should be open about your story people will ask things people are curious."

Just because you are open doesnt mean everyone has to be. I dont think just because I ask for advice on certain things that I need to make life an open book to the entire internet.

<blockquote><b>Quoting wantenabuddabelly:</b>" excuse me little smurf smurf i am not crazy very coherent and lucid actually just curious and people on ... [snip!] ... very open about my story if you are on this site you should be open about your story people will ask things people are curious."</blockquote>


Jesus smurfing Christ, you don't have to be open. There's plenty of smurf I do not explain unless it is pertinent information. Sorry she doesn't want to type her whole life story every time some ignorant smurf questions her motives for wanting a child. You're 42? Grow the smurf up!

Quoting wantenabuddabelly:" excuse me little smurf smurf i am not crazy very coherent and lucid actually just curious and people on ... [snip!] ... very open about my story if you are on this site you should be open about your story people will ask things people are curious."

smurf smurf? hahaha fuinny, you want people to be open but you go about it with the wrong approach, you knock a girl who's 22 who wants a child for she has a short window frame of having them, yet your the one almost over the hill in age wanting to conceive when that's even more dangerous. Why are you so worried about what another girl wants to do to her body and what she wants?? It's her life not yours hints why you waited til now for your second child. You're the one being a "smurf smurf" in this whole situation. If you don't like this site I suggest you go to cafemom.

this chat is not about anyone it is just a thought that came into my mind and i thought it would be interesting to discuss jeeze. shut it already it is not about anyone else if that girl wants to have a child with some ugly surfer kid [ladies in one of her chats kept saying he was ugly] that is on her i am not her mom i again was just curious about her but this has nothing to do with her okay so leave now.

thanks.

OP since you insist on judging someone else for choosing to have a child because "they are to young and ect" Lets flip the tables.

You are 42 and TTC. Do you know the risks involved with a pregnancy at your age? What are the effects going to be on your child having a mother thats so much older than most. What happens if the child a disability and needs life long care yet you are unable to provide this because of your age or declining health?
Doesnt seem very fair does it. No because its your body and your choice. Just like its her body and her choice. She shouldnt have to explain her story just to apease your judgmental ass.

Quoting wantenabuddabelly:" this chat is not about anyone it is just a thought that came into my mind and i thought it would be interesting ... [snip!] ... is on her i am not her mom i again was just curious about her but this has nothing to do with her okay so leave now. thanks."

funny how you say it's a thought that came to mind yet it describes the other thread you were just in making yourself look like a fool.

<blockquote><b>Quoting wantenabuddabelly:</b>" this chat is not about anyone it is just a thought that came into my mind and i thought it would be interesting ... [snip!] ... is on her i am not her mom i again was just curious about her but this has nothing to do with her okay so leave now. thanks."</blockquote>

Sure   because not even an hour after getting on her ass and being chewed out you post something asking why a young woman would do such a thing?! It's obvious this stemmed from her thread, you're just butthurt because nobody agrees with your ignorant outlook on life and having children.

Quoting wantenabuddabelly:" this chat is not about anyone it is just a thought that came into my mind and i thought it would be interesting ... [snip!] ... is on her i am not her mom i again was just curious about her but this has nothing to do with her okay so leave now. thanks."

Looks don't matter when it comes to stuff like that. If that was the case then only about 15% of people would produce children.

how does it describe anything did i say a 21 yr old virgin who wants to be a mom using a donor just to avoid loosing her precious virginity by having sexual intercourse? i was curious because that is strange but did not say any of that in my chatroom i am leaving that child alone she has mental issues and god bless her moving on i did not describe that young ladies situation here smurfing A you brats are annoying.

Quoting wantenabuddabelly:" how does it describe anything did i say a 21 yr old virgin who wants to be a mom using a donor just to ... [snip!] ... mental issues and god bless her moving on i did not describe that young ladies situation here smurfing A you brats are annoying."

Then leave.