re: 19 & Pregnant... Can I do it?

im twenty and im having my first and just knowing that makes me feel complete knowing that god blessed me with this special gift i cant wait i was afraid i wasnt going to do it but after all this im 38wks and i have no worries! i think u can do it good luck to you and the choice u make if u need aqnyone im here! i thought having my baby would ruin my life too considering ill be 21 and everyone says thats a big deal but having my family is more of a big deal to me so just listen to ur heart not other ppl!

Oh u can TOTALLY do it! I was 18 when I found ot I was pregnant and Arieanna SAVED my life...no joke! She has been NOTHING but a blessing and a mircale! Congrats hun, u can do it for sure, ur blessed! I even went back to highschool after dropping out and graduated 5 days OVERDUE with Arie, she was my motivation to get my life together!!Good luck hun, if u ever need anything let me know!

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thank you so much.

Of course you can do it! I am eighteen and will have my baby in September. I dont ever listen to people who say its ruining my life. It is your life and your decision to make, dont let others influence the way you feel or your capabilities of taking care of your baby.

you definetly can do it im 29 weeks and 6 days pregnant and im 16 its hard but age doesnt define how good of a mother you'll be!
and its not throwing away your life its just starting a new one =]

Quoting Preggie_Vegan:“ Hello lovely ladies! My name is Amanda. I am 19 years old and I am 10 weeks pregnant. I have the loving ... [snip!] ... I dont' want to terminate my pregnancy, I want to have this baby. - In deep need of support and success stories - Amanda”

Hi! I'm 19 and doing it. It's a big sacrifice, but I wouldn't have it any other way. I was 16 when I had my son, but was forced to place him for adoption, but I still have a relationship with him and his adoptive family, and just recently, I had my 2nd child, a beautiful baby girl, she's 2 months and I love being a mom! It's just a lot of work! Do I regret having to place my son for adoption? Every day. But seeing how happy he is and how great of a life he has makes me see it was worth it. I wouldn't have been able to give him everything he wanted and needed when I was 16. (The father wasn't really around.) Anyway, if you ever want to talk, feel free to message me! I've been through both routes!   Good luck, and I think you can do it!

you sure can ...im 19 and i just had my son 6 weeks ago and getting pregnant changed my life forever it helped me get my life on track and i wouldnt change it for anything i love him so much

Of course you can!

Quoting Expecting A Girl:“ you definetly can do it im 29 weeks and 6 days pregnant and im 16 its hard but age doesnt define how good of a mother you'll be! and its not throwing away your life its just starting a new one =]”

That's what my hubby said when I got pregnant! Because I was crying, lol.

Quoting ♥Fabulous♥:“ That's what my hubby said when I got pregnant! Because I was crying, lol.”

Awe thats cute
its true though =D

good luck, and don't let other people's opinions get you down! I'm also 19 and pregnant, and couldn't be happier!  

Quoting Expecting A Girl:“ you definetly can do it im 29 weeks and 6 days pregnant and im 16 its hard but age doesnt define how good of a mother you'll be! and its not throwing away your life its just starting a new one =]”

i like the way she put that, cause its so true. i am 18, in college, working, & i have a 3 month old son. you can do it! its just a different life, but it can be totally amazing.

Quoting Preggie_Vegan:“ wow. help on this site comes fast!!! thank you so much.”

YOU KNOW IT! thats why i LOVE this site!! 

Quoting Preggie_Vegan:“ wow. help on this site comes fast!!! thank you so much.”

BG is the best! I don't know what I would do without these ladies!

I'm 19 and pregnant as well. I was also confused about what I wanted to do for a few weeks (i'm 8 wks now). Yes, a baby is going to change you life, but that doesn't have to necessarily be for the worse. It's going to be a struggle, but in the end, that struggle is going to make you a better stronger person and think about all the love you're going to get in return. I think most of us that are young are scared, but cling to those that you love for support and I'm certain you'll be ok