re: Pregnant life seems too stressful for me

Quoting Lil' Nugget.:" my vagina didn't change at all, that's so naive of you to say."

Mine is tigher after pushing out a 9 pounder.

I already talk to a therapist
I am taking a low milligram of Citalopram Hydrobromide
but I fear itll hurt my boy

Quoting Lil' Nugget.:" my vagina didn't change at all, that's so naive of you to say."

whoops, didn't mean it that everyone's changes. but i know/heard a lot of girls/guys tell me after a natural birth it often feels a little different from the baby stretching it out. didn't mean to offend. sowwy!

Quoting Aubrey & Silas:" I already talk to a therapist I am taking a low milligram of Citalopram Hydrobromide but I fear itll hurt my boy"

They wouldn't have given it to you if it would hurt the baby.

Quoting Kelly +2 ERF/EH!:" Mine is tigher after pushing out a 9 pounder."

whooow props to you on puhing out a 9 pounder lol i dont know a single girl with babies born 9+ that were able to deliver vaginally. when i saw my son after he was brought to me, I thought to myself "how the hell could I have pushed him out?" he just looked soooo big and he was only 7lb 13oz

Yea but I see these commercials about Heart defects with my medicine. ?

Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:" whooow props to you on puhing out a 9 pounder lol i dont know a single girl with babies born 9+ that ... [snip!] ... to me, I thought to myself "how the hell could I have pushed him out?" he just looked soooo big and he was only 7lb 13oz"

my brother was 7 9 and i was 7 12 and my mom did it both times without an epi.

i had my son without an epi but he was 4 15.

i'm trying to go completely natural this time.

Quoting Aubrey & Silas:" Yea but I see these commercials about Heart defects with my medicine. ?"

there are ALWAYS negative effects that can come with ANY medicine. Your OB wouldn't have prescribed you meds if it would harm your LO

Quoting Lil' Nugget.:" my brother was 7 9 and i was 7 12 and my mom did it both times without an epi. i had my son without an epi but he was 4 15. i'm trying to go completely natural this time."

I wanted sooo bad to go natural, but after 13 hours of labor and nooo dilating my body and I were physically and mentally exhausted. I had to get cut   I'm hoping and praying that for my next baby (in 5-6 years) I can have a VBAC.

Ow, I'm def afraid of labor pain
My boy hurts my ribs and back already.

I was A 4.2 lbs baby and also a premature.
Would that give me a higher risk of having a Preme?

Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:" I wanted sooo bad to go natural, but after 13 hours of labor and nooo dilating my body and I were physically ... [snip!] ... and mentally exhausted. I had to get cut   I'm hoping and praying that for my next baby (in 5-6 years) I can have a VBAC."

yeah, depends on your doctor & the hospital, if they do VBAC and obviously how everything is with the baby and whatnot.

i think midwifes are a lot more relaxed about doing VBACs.

Quoting Aubrey & Silas:" Ow, I'm def afraid of labor pain My boy hurts my ribs and back already. I was A 4.2 lbs baby and also a premature. Would that give me a higher risk of having a Preme?"

i don't think so but never checked. my son was 37 weeks, so he was term but he was 4 pounds 15 ounces. i wonder what determines their weight. my SO was the smallest baby in his family, at 8 pounds 2 oz or something like that   lol

Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:" whooow props to you on puhing out a 9 pounder lol i dont know a single girl with babies born 9+ that ... [snip!] ... to me, I thought to myself "how the hell could I have pushed him out?" he just looked soooo big and he was only 7lb 13oz"

lol Thanks. Had a natural labor and delivery with her so we're shootin for the same this time.

Quoting Aubrey & Silas:" Ow, I'm def afraid of labor pain My boy hurts my ribs and back already. I was A 4.2 lbs baby and also a premature. Would that give me a higher risk of having a Preme?"

be a little afraid but don't stress and fear it. it does suck, and it does hurt. but it is the MOST amazing an rewarding feeling once you hear their first cry and see them for that very first time. instead of thinking about the pain, think of the first thing you'll say to him when you see him. once your son is born, seconds after, you won't be thinking about the pain at all.