Quoting Brandi Eastman:" I think the first few b-days are more family events anyways. Your kid may have some daycare "friends" but I don't think it really counts till they are like 4."
Quoting Sarah Curtsinger:" my daughters 1st is next month and we are only doing a small party...just family...its all about her ... [snip!] ... you have 3 months to go...maybe by then she will be sitting up..my daughter didnt sit up until she was 8 months..."