19 and alone

So im 18 and will be due in december (by that time ill be 19). i got pregnant aftr making a miscalculation while using an ovulation calendar and the morning after pill failing. My now ex boyfriend is going 2.5 hours away for college and swears to have nothing to do with the child except maybe when its convenient for him. to make matters worse my mom is not supporting me emotionally in any way because she disapproves and basically thinks im a slut. im completely alone and scared out of my mind! im not even allowed to feel happy that im bringing a life into the world   advice/help please?!

everything will be fine.

where in texas do u live?

I'm sorry to hear that your family isn't being supportive.
Your ex sounds like a jerk and you don't need that in your life. Hes the one missing out not you.
Keep your head up and stay postive 

awww i'm soo sorry to hear that!! i'm pretty much in the same situation atleast with the whole baby daddy thing and my birth control didn't work at all either.. butits really hard at first especially if you don't have any support but hang in there.. just think of your baby and yourself and do whats best.. and for the daddy forget him if he can't accept it then he's to immature and not worth the drama

Quoting ♥Unique♥:“ I'm sorry to hear that your family isn't being supportive. Your ex sounds like a jerk and you don't need that in your life. Hes the one missing out not you. Keep your head up and stay postive ”

tot he OP I am so sorry to hear that everyone is being so negative toward you... if you ever wanna chat about anything I am all ears...

Amber....do you know the sex yet???? I am betting BOY....

Quoting adelaidemum(*7 weeks*):“ tot he OP I am so sorry to hear that everyone is being so negative toward you... if you ever wanna chat about anything I am all ears... Amber....do you know the sex yet???? I am betting BOY....”

I find out tommorow at 3:30!! I cannot sleep lol.
Wow your the first one to say im gonna have a boy lol.
Everyone thinks im having a girl. I have no gut feeling on what im going to have.

thank you girls. im really glad i found this site where theres all different people in all different situations. its a great support network!

and sorry scarlet...i have no clue why it says i live in texas im going to change that right now...im in cali

Your ex sounds like a wanker   I'm a single parent it has its bad days I tell you,but it also has its good days. 

Quoting ♥Unique♥:“ I find out tommorow at 3:30!! I cannot sleep lol. Wow your the first one to say im gonna have a boy lol. Everyone thinks im having a girl. I have no gut feeling on what im going to have.”

Me neither... I really dont think that you can tell what you are going to have... I have had a boy and a girl and again this pregnancy is totally different..... its 3:53 pm tuesday right now.... pity you dont live in Australia you would know by now LOL....  

Quoting adelaidemum(*7 weeks*):“ Me neither... I really dont think that you can tell what you are going to have... I have had a boy and ... [snip!] ... different..... its 3:53 pm tuesday right now.... pity you dont live in Australia you would know by now LOL....  ”

Its only 4pm there? its 6:30pm tuesday here lol! where in Aus do you live?

Quoting shamutrnr:“ So im 18 and will be due in december (by that time ill be 19). i got pregnant aftr making a miscalculation ... [snip!] ... and scared out of my mind! im not even allowed to feel happy that im bringing a life into the world   advice/help please?!”

Give your mom time. Usually they come around.

I'm kind of in the same situation. My baby's father lives a state away and doesn't give a shit that he has responsibility in this too. But hell, I feel better off with him gone now..and I am. Just like you probably are too.

Seriously, be thankful for that little life growing in you no matter what everyone else is doing. The baby has done nothing wrong and it truly is a blessing. These are scary emotional times but it all evens out in the end.  

Best of luck to you.

Quoting adelaidemum(*7 weeks*):“ Me neither... I really dont think that you can tell what you are going to have... I have had a boy and ... [snip!] ... different..... its 3:53 pm tuesday right now.... pity you dont live in Australia you would know by now LOL....  ”

lol i wish i lived in Australia 
Its 2:30 am here. I cant tell at all, so i have noo clue. my bf thinks its a boy, and all my friends think its a girl...I will soon find out  

Quoting Jamie&Hazel :]:“ Its only 4pm there? its 6:30pm tuesday here lol! where in Aus do you live?”

Adelaide....and no I am not retarded or sleeping with my dad LOL..... man why do all the whackos come here    ......Whats NZ like I really wanna go there some day...

Quoting ♥Unique♥:“ lol i wish i lived in Australia  Its 2:30 am here. I cant tell at all, so i have noo clue. my bf thinks its a boy, and all my friends think its a girl...I will soon find out  ”

do you have any names picked out?

Dont worry everything will work out and when your mom sees that baby everything will change. They cant help but LOVE grand babies