Quoting Vodka Knockers:" I would have a funeral, personally. It all just depends on what level of intimacy you felt with the baby ... [snip!] ... something I can't say because I haven't experienced a loss at that level into a pregnancy. I'm so sorry for your loss mama."This, and also sorry for your loss. If you want to make an official goodbye with family and friends or yourself even that is just one way of doing it, otherwise you can keep it private and just hold onto the memories. There is no right or wrong thing to do.