SO working out of state

So my fiance got laid off last week and hes been working with his dad in TN since Thursday last week to make some money till he can get another job, he's looking into the air force but it is just so hard being away from him, i miss him so much.

its going to get easier for you if you need someone to talk to you can talk to me.

I am in the same position:
I live in Australia In QLD and my babies dad just got a job on the other side of the country In Western Australia just as we found out i was pregnant.
He works for one month straight and is only back for a week.

Im 22 weeks this week and he wanted a break when i was 20 and a half weeks
He said he needs a break from me because im so bitchy and i wont eat properly and i wont have sex much.
I frustrates me because im pregnant therefor of course im going to be bitchy!!
And i have a baby in me and it hurts my tummy to have sex and ive never eaten much. So pretty much how i see it is, im being funished for being pregnant! Which is totally wrong.
One of my big probloms is i over think EVERYTHING!
Shaun my babies dad, we talk every day and tell each other that we love eachother and he said when he comes home he wants to go out and hang with some chick his only met a few times, i got so angry, so jealous and i just automatically thought to myself yerp his going to sleep with her.
He said his not like that anymore sleeping with heaps of chicks but its so hard.
And im also extremely clingy when he comes home and he doesnt like that
But it jus because i miss him so much and i hate when he goes to see his mates becasue i just want him home with me.
It is extremely hard being away from your loved one especially whilst being pregnant, it sucks so much.... I cry nearly everynight because i miss him and just want him home

Hopefully you and your partner are a strong couple and will get through it
Distance is very hard!! But will be worth it in the end.

Quoting Nugz:" I am in the same position: I live in Australia In QLD and my babies dad just got a job on the other side ... [snip!] ... you and your partner are a strong couple and will get through it Distance is very hard!! But will be worth it in the end."

I'm sorry to hear everything you are going through, it is really hard, me and my SO actually broke up when i got pregnant because everything he did annoyed and irritated me, i think it was the hormones because we never had any problems before. We are good now though and just as strong as we were before, if not stronger, we're even engaged now, we dont have any secrets from each other anymore. But its just we hate being away from each other.

I can understand about your SO, i would be irritated if my SO came home and just wanted to go see his friends.
The relationship i was in before my SO i was working and not in college and my SO was in college and not working, and we broke up because he said i got "annoying" but the only reason i was annoying and bitchy is because i would work from 4 am to 1 pm and he would go to school from 8 am to 12 pm and i would come home and expect him to be there and us spend the rest of the day together and he was never there,
Then i would think okay well he'll be home tonight and he would never come home untill i was leaving for work in the morning, and it's like if u spent some damn time with me i wouldn't be annoying.

Guys just don't get it, it's not just being pregnant it's just always if you don't spend time with us, of course we are gonna get annoying and clingy when your around because we miss you.

And the sex thing is a bit ridiculous, i went into labor last tuesday, they stopped it though, and my SO was freaking out swearing we were never having sex again because he thought it was his fault i went into labor because we had sex and he was beating himself up over it, i had to calm him down and re-assure him that it wasnt his fault, i went into labor because i had a kidney infection that was causing my uterus stress and making it contract.

most guys dont understand.

Oh wow thats no good!! Hope everything is ok now!!
I get urine infections alot, i was abit worried about that...
Im glad you guys are ok now and engaged thats so great   im happy for you  
I think when bub comes along everything will change and he will realise and wanna stay home and look after bub... well thats what im hoping anyway haha