Quoting Nugz:" I am in the same position: I live in Australia In QLD and my babies dad just got a job on the other side ... [snip!] ... you and your partner are a strong couple and will get through it Distance is very hard!! But will be worth it in the end."
I'm sorry to hear everything you are going through, it is really hard, me and my SO actually broke up when i got pregnant because everything he did annoyed and irritated me, i think it was the hormones because we never had any problems before. We are good now though and just as strong as we were before, if not stronger, we're even engaged now, we dont have any secrets from each other anymore. But its just we hate being away from each other.
I can understand about your SO, i would be irritated if my SO came home and just wanted to go see his friends.
The relationship i was in before my SO i was working and not in college and my SO was in college and not working, and we broke up because he said i got "annoying" but the only reason i was annoying and bitchy is because i would work from 4 am to 1 pm and he would go to school from 8 am to 12 pm and i would come home and expect him to be there and us spend the rest of the day together and he was never there,
Then i would think okay well he'll be home tonight and he would never come home untill i was leaving for work in the morning, and it's like if u spent some damn time with me i wouldn't be annoying.
Guys just don't get it, it's not just being pregnant it's just always if you don't spend time with us, of course we are gonna get annoying and clingy when your around because we miss you.
And the sex thing is a bit ridiculous, i went into labor last tuesday, they stopped it though, and my SO was freaking out swearing we were never having sex again because he thought it was his fault i went into labor because we had sex and he was beating himself up over it, i had to calm him down and re-assure him that it wasnt his fault, i went into labor because i had a kidney infection that was causing my uterus stress and making it contract.
most guys dont understand.