Sound like cheating?

My boyfriend's ex texted him several times asking about borrowing money, he said he would let her but now she's constantly bugging. She was driving behind my boyfriend and I the other day and she starts waving and honking like crazy! I have no idea how she knows what my car looks like or why she would do that. We changed his phone number and now for some "odd" reason she knows the number, yesterday she texted him, I read the text and it said "What do you need to talk about?" so automatically I question him and he says he has no idea what she's talking about or how she has the new number. I've asked her repeatedly to stop talking to him and she doesn't get the point. I'm 32 weeks pregnant and really can't put up with it, does it sound like they're together?

No, it doesnt.. to me it sounds like she can't let go of him..

i don't think just because he's talking to her that he's cheating...have you tried talking to him about it? you should talk to him before you jump to conclusions, see what he has to say.

Trust is a BIG part of relationships, mind you.

Sounds like she needs to back the fuck off. Talk to him about it...see how he reacts. Tell him it makes you uncomfortable, don't be accusing, just let him know how you feel. Ask him how he would feel if the situation were reversed...

they're probablt not together, but it does sound weird.
why would she have his new number unless he gave it to her...
i dunno...i'd keep asking the bf about it

Quoting Sam's momma:“ My boyfriend's ex texted him several times asking about borrowing money, he said he would let her but ... [snip!] ... him and she doesn't get the point. I'm 32 weeks pregnant and really can't put up with it, does it sound like they're together?”

Might not be cheating, but he's def. talking to her.

Quoting [[Samantha]]:“ they're probablt not together, but it does sound weird. why would she have his new number unless he gave it to her... i dunno...i'd keep asking the bf about it”

Some girls are psycho and will find a way to get the number!!

My husband dated a girl 5 years before we got together and when we got together she was in Iraq with the military. She came home a couple weeks ago and is constantly calling him wanting to hang out like old times. She has even stopped by our house to talk to him because he wont answer his phone. Some girls are just flat crazy and can't get over the fact your guy doesn't want them anymore. tell them both how you feel and that you arent putting up with it!

I don't think it sounds like cheating, but that is just me.

Something similiar was going on with my bf not too long ago. So one morning I took his phone with him right there and started texting this girl and was like want to hang out this weekend? Should we get a hotel or just go for dinner...shit like that and I got the truth because she thought it was him texting..

seems sketchy but It's hard to say..

I think its kindof like emotional cheating...like if he cant tell you hes talking to her he obviously knows its not right. Maybe if they arnt cheating hes seeming like hes connecting with her in a way that even he knows is inappropriate. She could be a phyco, but then why wouldnt he tell her where to go? I wouldnt make a huge drama out of it ut i think u need to have the "trust" talk.

Quoting Sara12345:“ I think its kindof like emotional cheating...like if he cant tell you hes talking to her he obviously ... [snip!] ... but then why wouldnt he tell her where to go? I wouldnt make a huge drama out of it ut i think u need to have the "trust" talk.”

ya my bf started emailing this girl in london (i'm in washington) when i first got pregnant and he lied about it and i found out and it hurt me reallly bad...he wasn't really doing anything wrong but he was looking for some kind of emotional attention or somebody to stroke his ego and it hurt really bad even though its not that big of a deal. I talked to him about it and he said he was just scared at the beginning of the preg and bla bla bla but either way its still wrong.

Quoting Amanda ;]~:“ ya my bf started emailing this girl in london (i'm in washington) when i first got pregnant and he lied ... [snip!] ... to him about it and he said he was just scared at the beginning of the preg and bla bla bla but either way its still wrong.”

for sure i went through some ppd and i started talking to my old boyfriend and i started withdrawing from my current boyfriend(now fiance) all together. I finally fessed up because he totally knew something was up...then came the jelous change your cell number change your email..and i did and our relationship is soo much stronger.