why do i feel bad about this i really shouldnt!!

i aborted one child. and kept the others....at the time money was tight... i couldnt raise any more.. but yet i kept the others. i shouldnt need to give myself reasoning but its so hard not to.. is anyone else in this situation?

If you believe that you made the best decision for yourself and your children at the time, then you did. Its hard to get over but time heals all.

Quoting KylieOshiro:" i aborted one child. and kept the others....at the time money was tight... i couldnt raise any more.. ... [snip!] ... but yet i kept the others. i shouldnt need to give myself reasoning but its so hard not to.. is anyone else in this situation?"

Do what you need to do. I aborted a child after I had Lily... it was the best choice for us even though I did love that child. If you want to know of a message board strictly for abortion survivors, PM me. It can help you if you need help in your healing.

 

(This offer is extended to anyone who needs help with an abortion)

i had an abortion in 2005. i still think about it alot. i had many reasons why i aborted, it hurts alot, but i feel that my decision was the best.