Quoting ♥GMBÖ:" You need SOMEONE telling you what you should be doing which is not thinking about having another baby ... [snip!] ... 25? I just don't think a teen should be planning anything regarding another child. But it's the norm I guess so go for it."
You're really dense, aren't you? Tay (the OP) has a really good head on her shoulders. She may have had her son at a young age, but she is making the best of a less-than-ideal situation. From now on, keep your stupid comments to yourself, because you don't know HER story or HER situation. End of discussion.