So...Vent long

Well lately my boyfriend and I been having problems since last friday..I just found out that the only reason we had problems and were about to break up was because..he cheated..he kissed another girl..he confessed and he apologized about it..we talked a lot...and im taking it one day at a time..and he says he wont do it again...and he feels bad..and i told him if he does it again im gone forever..and i never told him that so he knows im not playing this time...but i still have trust issues with him as of right now..I have to worry about when he goes to work..because the girl he kissed works at his job..ugh..anyway...
So his mom knows about everything..and I just feel like shes only cares if were together because of my son..she thinks ( i dont know why) that if we were to break up, she wont be able to see my son and she thinks im going to keep my son away from his father..like what kind of sh*t is that?? Why would she even think I would do something so dumb..its not about me and my boyfriend..its about my son and letting him see his dad if he wants too..i would never keep him away from his dad..because even when we had problems before we were still friends..
I dont know lately ive been really annoyed by some of the things she does and say..I dont know..like shell keep asking me is my son going to get darker..like shes scared hell look black..because her parents dont accept him..her mom is working on it..but her dad is not having it..but i really dont care..I feel like she keeps asking that because she doesnt want him too..and when we went to visit her friends..she made a comment like..oh hes gotten darker than before..and im like why is that a damn problem..i plan on telling my boyfriend she keeps bringing that up..
another thing she was over and she made a comment like, I dont think you guys should be this serious because your young..and im like you can find love when ever and at what ever age..so that shouldnt be a problem..why would you say that..and shes like well brandon said you asked for a promise ring..im like wow..i asked him about it..but he brought it up one time too and asked my ring size..So i guess she put it in his head im trying to get him to marry me..but thats definately not it..I feel like she really doesnt want it to work..but shes only going with it because she wants to be around my son..and if it doesnt i wouldnt keep her away...
Shes just really been annoying me with some things she says..shes putting ideas in Brandons head..and i dont like it..and she says she loves us both and everything..but if so why do you care if were getting serious..you have to grow up sometime right?
and she gave my son who was only two weeks at the time a little of her frosting from off of the cake she had..I didnt like it and told her he cant have that stuff it can mess up his stomach..then just a day or two ago..she tried to tell me to give him some of my ice cream..because he was fussy and couldnt poop..im like no! are you kidding he cant have that kind of stuff..and she like i gave him frosting! and im like he wasnt even supposed to have that..im not giving him anything but milk! hes only a month and two weeks..so i have to watch her with that when shes here..and i have to tell my boyfriend what im thinking because i dont want to keep it away from him..
And he brought up a thing about child support..i told him i would never make him pay child support as long as hes seeing his son and taking care of him..and then when we were mad at each other..he said someone told him i would make him pay..and stuff like that so hes going to give me 50 a week..and more when he gets a little older..i told him who would tell you this stuff..i dont need your money..hes like just incase we break up i know im covered..and so he gave me money and i thought he gave me fifty dollars but he gave me thirty..and i was liek i think i lost my twenty dollars..she was like yeah because brandon gave you fifty..im like how does she know that?!...and so thats why i figure shes the one who told him that..because she also started to mention it when we were in the hospital when i had my son..and we talked about it..so she obviously doesnt trust me..and i feel like she might feel that were "ghetto" and im going to make him pay..so i have a big issue with her right now..because she has to stop with putting ideas in his head..and know that im not who she thinks i am when it comes to that..
sorry it was so long..i just been holding this in for a while now..and i needed to vent..
do you guys think i should tell him about how i feel??..because i want him to know..shes just been annoying me lately..and i know he would tell me if my mom was doing what she is..and putting ideas in my head...

Yeah, I think you should sit him down and talk to him. Tell him about everything you posted on here and how upset its making you. Just make sure you don't bash her too hard, cuz, ya know, she's still his mom, even though shes being a bitch. And I would try to get him to be the one to confront her about it, because, again, shes HIS mom, and she'll probably take it better coming from him.

I would start by not telling her anything about your relationship, AND I would tell him to stop doing it too.When she makes comments, polietly tell her its between you and b/f.
Also a taste of ice cream or frosting isn't going to kill him, don't freak out!!

Quoting Winkibat:“ Yeah, I think you should sit him down and talk to him. Tell him about everything you posted on here and ... [snip!] ... him to be the one to confront her about it, because, again, shes HIS mom, and she'll probably take it better coming from him.”

yeah because even my mom has talked to me about it..and shes bothered too..and she heard her tell me we were too young and my mom defended me in that..and my mom said she was going to ask her why does it matter if he gets darker or not..were going to love him regardless

yeah, you kinda just have to say what you need to say once and try to let it go. I'm trying to learn to do that with my fiance's mom, she apparently doesnt like my baby because it was concieved out of wedlock or something. Its hard to do, but if you're like me, you don't need any added stress right now. Just stay away from her as much as you can without being rude about it. And Joseph & Ben's Mommy is right, don't talk to her about your relationship anymore!